When I talk to him everyday and play with him he seems to adore me, and I know really appreciates me. But when we fight because he made ME feel bad, he never says sorry for being rude, and he acts as if he dosen't care at all.
What to do? Why does he act this way?.
By the way he's 12 and I'm 15, so he's old enough to care, right?at least a little bit?.
He says I'm too sensible, but it really hurts me that he's like this.
2007-03-28 15:10:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's your brother! what do you expect!!!?? its called sibling rivalry
plus he's becoming a teen
his hormones will be all over the place.
2007-03-28 15:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by tablesalt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your brother is going through pubity and you are too. To honestly tell the truth siblings go through this love hate thing more then you know. I felt this way about my two younger sisters, but I came to realize that they were jealous. They use to treat me like I was the enemy and play together and shut me down. My youngest sister would not let me feed her or take care of her she only allowed my middle sister to care for her, she was the baby and she would not let me kiss her fat cheeks, I was hurt they would share secrets and double team on me to our mother. Sadly I left them in their world and created my own. Leave him alone. Get a life you are not a baby anymore. Love him, but be the bigger one and get a life. Get this when they get in trouble they call me Not our mother or Ghost busters... he will come around. Boys dont like girls to tell them anything and you are a girl plus you are older he does not like being the little brother to a sister he is just growing up....
2007-03-28 22:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by tressroy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he still loves you. it's just some people act differently to different situations then others. i have a brother and sister who do the exact same thing to me. i also get really mad when they don't say sorry or act like nothings going on. i just ignore it because that is the way they deal with things. in the end, they still love me like i'm sure your brother still loves you.
if you really wanted to do something you could talk to him about it. you might actually be able to fix the problem. Good Luck.
2007-03-28 22:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, your brother loves you, he just has a hard time showing it so when you two fight again and then he comes up and tries joking with you, that right there is saying that he's sorry.
Some people really struggle with showing emotions to others so keep your eyes open for those apologies because it's just hard for him to express with words and emotions.
Chow.
2007-03-28 22:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He treats you that way because he loves you like a sister.
The real test comes whenever anyone else ever try to treat you the same way. Then the loving truth will emerge naturally. I have raised enough kids, my own and grand kids, as well as having four sisters.
Relax, as he matures, so will his attitude toward showing you how much he loves you.
2007-03-28 22:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by The Parthian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, sometimes girls are a bit too sensible but the guy isn't supposed to hurt a girls' feelings no matter what she does.
2007-03-28 22:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all .. your both kids. and he does care as you do him, brothers and sisters have these type of friendships all the time. boys are some times rude in friendship cause they dont kow how to respond to friendship well. but let someone esle get rude or hurt you.. watch out! he is ready to defend you. now thats love. I know.. I had some of those my self. it does get better as you get older. believe me.
2007-03-28 22:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by shakannaglory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he loves you. His behavior is what younger siblings do at that age. It is simply a part of growing up and he will mature as you get older.
2007-03-28 22:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by Tina L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur the older sibling he still nees to be loved... when ur 12 did u go out on ur own no..u had mom and dad there to take care of u and luv u
2007-03-28 22:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by BEERCAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just at that age. Believe me, my brother hated me for the longest time...especialy when we fought. But he'll grow out of it. Just keep showing him you care about him.
2007-03-28 22:14:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you always think of only yourself and it's going to get worse as you get older because thinking of others takes effort.
2007-03-28 22:14:42 · answer #11 · answered by Ilya S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋