I'm sure many of you have replied to my questions before, and thank you...
Ok, well A guy friend of mine (i really like him) and I, we've been emailing each other back and forth since October, we met during the summer, and dated for 2 months... He knows I'll go back there this summer and stay for good, and He was really excited about that, even in his last emails... I just don't get it, I havebn't heard from him in since february the 23rd, and everything was going sooo perfect, he promised we would keep in touch and we did, and we both agreed it would be as friends, and everything was great...
Why why why hasn't he replied to my last emails, nor my text messeges, I know he is ok. I just don't get it.
2007-03-28 15:10:26 · 9 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you really need to ask him.
2007-03-28 15:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... the same thing, strangely enough, happened to me... I met a girl before the summer (she was in my first grade class, but by the time we'd re-met, we couldn't recognize each other) and we agreed to keep in constant contact via e-mail. We'd been e-mailing each other for so long that checking my e-mails for a message from her had become part of my daily routine. But after Christmas, she had suddenly and abruptly stopped. That was the last time I'd heard from her. I couldn't get it; I couldn't figure it out. But, do you wanna know what I did?
I MOVED ON.
Sometimes, things like this happen. It may be as simple as a failure to communicate, it may be total friendship break-up, it may mean a missing part of your life, but what it doesn't mean is that you should beat yourself up over it. I still wonder why she never replied to me after all these months, and you probably will still be wondering in a few months as well, but by then, you most likely will have moved on and cleared up and inner turmoils you've been experiencing.
To put it bluntly, this stuff happens. And you know what? It's okay. It happens to everyone at least once in their lives. So don't feel down over it - I feel it, other people feel it, and probably everyone feels it, but it's not the end of the world. Good luck with your situation!
2007-03-28 22:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by 0dd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys/girls just get caught up in the moment and the same thing can be said about relationships, whether they be in-person or long distance text induced romances. The problem is, is that people are more open to conversations held via text than in person. In some cases people end up pretending, sometimes unintentionally, to be someone else, just to see how it feels, what reaction they'd get or what they could say. The basic problem here is that conversations just via text are too easy to throw away. You need to bond with the person, more than his word skills and perhaps he is now distracted elsewhere? Hey I'm not saying its something you did. Sometimes it just takes some other young thing in a skirt to turn a guy's head/heart, sometimes its his living environment. The worse thing you can do is chase after him now - perhaps this is something he liked - you pursuing him? Get on with your life and if he really LIKED you he'll contact you soon enough. Good Luck.
2007-03-28 22:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by karenramel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you both agreed youd be friends. doesnt mean you two have to forget youve a life away from one another. he might have a girlfriend that he doesnt want you to know about cuz he said he was excited about you moving near him again.
he could be playin some girl in the meantime if he hopes something can be rekindled with you, he could be busy living. who the heck knows? everything in your mind right now is assumption. all we can give is assumption. nothing here is gonna be what really is. peace
2007-03-28 22:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has been busy. A lot of people in general will read messages and think they will get back to them later and forget. Or maybe you're contacting him a little too much. Try not to be clingy.
2007-03-28 22:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by Smiles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be avoiding you, i suggest just stop talking to him for a while then randomly out of the blue one day email him and be like "hey long time no talk" or something
2007-03-28 22:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thought when I read this was that he might have gotten a girlfriend...Give him some space. You both need it. Dont' worry so much..its gonna be alright.
2007-03-28 22:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prolly seeing someone else.
2007-03-28 22:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's called,
you have been dumped syndrome.
all over.
i'ts done.
2007-03-28 22:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋