Well, i think i love this girl. She is a really good friend of mine and i love everything about her. me and her have the same things in common, like Everything, and shes christian, does not cuss, likes the same music i do, i mean perfect for me. The thing is, one of her friends came to me and asked me if i thought she was cute, and i answered yes. I know her friend told her, and now when i hear her talking with other people about me i get the feeling she doesn't like me. But the wierd thing is she still seems like she likes me, and thier is nothing akward between us, even though she might know i like her. I am so confused on what to do, do i tell her, and she say no so our friendship would be akward or just wait it out? What do you guys think?
2007-03-28 15:10:07 · 6 answers · asked by pilotman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, the friend that told her that i said she was cute does not have a good relationship with her. And, she seemed mad at her for asking me this.
2007-03-28 15:27:43 · update #1
I'm still waiting to hear what you did wrong. From what I gather, the "issue" is that her friend asked you if you thought she (the friend) was cute and you said yes and the friend went back and told the girlfriend, right? So you're not supposed to find any other person on the planet cute if you're interested in her or you're supposed to lie about it? Why isn't she upset with her friend for approaching you with such a personal question or was it a "test" of some sort that she and her friend cooked up? If so, she's insecure and immature and you don't need her. Either way, I don't play head games well so I would just tip my hat to her in passing and keep right on going. You can definitely do better, both in the friend department AND the girlfriend department.
2007-03-28 15:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 things...
always be nice to her freinds, they have a lot of influence with her and having them on your side is a very good thing.
ask her out. if she says no, wait a couple weeks and ask again. if she still says no, then just be her freind and dont be mad at her for not going out with you.
and always, ALWAYS, be honest with her, respectful and polite. even if she never goes out with you, I'll bet her freinds notice you.
Good luck!
2007-03-28 22:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just go for it.
2007-03-28 22:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by potter71331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her and if she say no then ask her to forgot it
2007-03-28 22:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her, then i think you should tell her!!
2007-03-28 22:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by f.lipped 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it....
2007-03-28 22:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋