I just gained the strength to talk to a girl on the bus that i didnt know. the first time was only a few minutes aswell as the second. and that is it for now. she doesnt seem to shove me off and seems like a great person.....i was wondering if the next time i see her if i should give her my number and tell her to call me (to see if she has intrest in me in the first place) and to see if we can go to lunch after class sometime next week...do you think its a good idea or should i wait longer or what???....if you are a lady what do you consider i do...if you r a dude what would you do? PLEASE I NEED HELP THANK YOU I NEED UR HELP.
2007-03-28 15:08:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont rush it, get to know her for a little while first.
2007-03-28 15:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by sai 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well 1st of all are you hot? And if yu guys have talked maybe you should ask her out. Has she been nice towards you or do you only see her on the bus. I mean the hard part really is going and talking to her, now that you've done that you should have no problem. But don't try and sound desperate, casually ask her to have lunch with you, get to know her more and then exchange #'s or whatever.
2007-03-28 22:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by meximari420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok the first thing you need to do is relax. Seriously.
Don't listen to most people. Most people are idiots, you don't need 15 answers. With a title as obnoxious as yours, you are lucky to get one.
No, do not give her your number. Girls very rarely will call you back, no matter how good looking or charming you are. Ask her for her number, and if she gives you it wait a few days and call her.
2007-03-28 22:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by Interested 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont just go straight into the phone number and calling you. try sparking up a conversation with her first. maybe even try to get the seat next to her on the bus. just go up to her and be like, i really like that shirt, or crazy weather were havin huh? if she talks for a while, she may be interested. if she makes her answers short and to the point she more than likely doesnt wanna talk to you. good luck!!!!!
2007-03-28 22:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that TOTALLY depends on what kind of person you are. Are you attractive, or more importantly, does she find you attractive? Is she interested in you? If her signals indicate that she may like you, then go for it. Really, man, I say if you like her, just do it, the worst that can happen is that she won't call. I wouldn't mind if a guy gave me his number (although, even so, I might be too chicken to call) as long as I was somewhat attracted to him and liked his personality.
2007-03-28 22:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by Pooky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find out if she had anything in common before I went any further. So, waiting a little bit longer would be a good thing. Mabey, she will make a move. Try to be funny. Women and girls like a guy to make her laugh! Just don't be corney.
What do you like to do? Mabey, she likes what you do. Baseball,music,computers,Just tell her! You may be surprised!!!! BE COOL! Don't blow it!
Take your time.
Well,good luck partner!!!!
2007-03-28 22:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write down your name and contact numbers on a decent piece of paper and hand it to her the next time you see her. Give her some personal space before you invite her for a cuppa.
2007-03-28 22:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...slow down, take a breath and just relax a minute! :D In my experience girls like a guy who comes right out and asks you out! Be bold! Just go ahead and ask her if she wants to do lunch sometime. That would be WAY more attractive to me than a guy beating around the bush. :) Good luck to you! :D
2007-03-28 22:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i would wait longer. Since she does not shove you off, don't give her a reason to. She may think you are obsessed with her after knowing her for like 10 minutes, and she may think thats creepy(which its not, your just excited, i get ya). So dont worry man, you just keep on talking to her, and once you really get to know her, ask her out.
2007-03-28 22:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by pilotman 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if the conversation is going well, just ask her about lunch next week. no need to add the extra step of just randomly asking for her number. if she likes you at all she'll say yes, then ask for her number to make plans.
good luck!
2007-03-28 22:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait to see if she sends better signals. It's hard to indulge rejection. Keep on talking to her. Who knows? Maybe you'll hit it off more when you ask her out. Stay cool, and be yourself most importantly. Don't be someone your not. It's cool to stand out from the others. ü
Good Luck!
2007-03-28 22:14:39 · answer #11 · answered by heavydeezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋