My girlfriend continues to tell me about all of her former boyfriends and all the sex they had. I tell her all the time that I don't want to hear about it and she continues to tell me. Does she do this to make me jealous or is she trying to give me hints for our first time or what!?
2007-03-28 15:07:42 · 28 answers · asked by Van Patrick Frubel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not a virgin if that makes a difference and I barely even told her the names of my former girlfriends. Although she doesn't really ask too much about them.
2007-03-28 15:16:45 · update #1
Her continuing to talk about her sex life after you've asked her to stop is extremely rude and mean. If you want her to stop it, then you'll have to do more than tell her. Whenever she starts talking about things you don't want to hear, then walk away from her. Otherwise you'll be a doormat and that's no way to begin an intimate relationship with someone.
2007-03-28 15:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by LindaLou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. She's trying to make you jealous
2. She's trying to turn you on in a messed up way
3. She's proud of her previous conquests and it makes her feel good to talk about them.
I don't consider it respectful to you if she's constantly bringing up her past experiences. Not only because it's just not something you do in a relationship, but especially because you've repeatedly asked her not to.
I would sit her down and seriously tell her this is not okay with you. Let her know you will be intimate with her when it's the right time, and her discussing her past is not helping.
If she continues to do it, I'd say it's best that you move on. It could be a warning to you anyway when it comes to how faithful she may be to you. If she can openly tell you details about her past sex life, it would make me wonder why she'd feel guilty about actually cheating on you.
Best of luck.
2007-03-28 22:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by afwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever her reason it's quite inappropriate, especially if you've already let her know you don't desire to hear about it. When she does it in the future, stop her and remind her that's not a topic you care to hear about and then change the subject...if she persists then remove yourself from her presence until she's ready to discuss something else.
If she has that little respect for you, after you've told her you're not interested in her past sexual escapades, it may be time to reconsider if she's really a good match for you.
2007-03-28 22:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has guilt over her promiscuity and wants to make sure you know the facts and still want to be with her. Even if it comes out like she is boasting, she just does it because she needs to feel accepted by you. And partly because she's showing you how bad the other guys wanted her so you'll want her too.
2007-03-28 22:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by SayWhat? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) She's not over her former boyfriends.
2) She wants to come clean to you.
If you are uncomfortable with this, talk to her. Tell her that you don't need nor want to hear about her past sexual experiences. You like her and knowing everything about her sexual past is really grinding on you.
2007-03-28 22:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she is doing it to make you jealous, and also, she doesn't have any respect for your feelings. She is continuing to say those things because she knows it bothers you, and for some reason, it gives her a thrill. You deserve to be treated better.
2007-03-28 22:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably hinting, but don't give in. Pure men are hard to find these days. Your future wife will be grateful that you saved the most precious gift you can give just for her!
2007-03-28 22:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by goaliegirl87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be trying to make you jealous or she might have the misguided idea that she is being "intimate" with you. Either way, she's being inappropriate.
My advice? Ask her the question you just posed and make her answer it.
2007-03-28 22:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by e_d_ellis2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's trying to hint that her former sex life is better then her present sex life.if she's still dwelling on the past maybe she finds herself missing what she had before.
2007-03-28 22:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by Lovely1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude that is nasty. I could never handle that. It is really disrespectful and she knows if bothers you. Does she realize she is ruining the relationship? Find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
2007-03-28 22:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋