Ive met a wonderful girl. She sits next to me in class (college) and she is beautiful. Smart but a little dingy. Not like blonde dingy where she keeps saying oh my god and smacks her gum. Its a cute kind of dingy. know what i mean? And shes real nice and funny. But i dont know if im mistaking her kindness for flirting. Im a little insecure, im no brad pitt but im a really nice guy. Theres two more weeks left in this class and i want to ask her out but i dont have the balls to, and possibly be rejected. I know i should just do it cause you never know what might happen. Any suggestions how. I was thinking of just being forward and asking if she wanted to go out sometime.
2007-03-28 15:01:41 · 8 answers · asked by tecumshea200 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If shes a decent girl she will be nice about.
Be straight foward because i hate when guys ask me out wierdly
i get mixed messages..
so yeah just say 'you wanna go out sometime.'
2007-03-28 15:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by A P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you answered your own question!! Go for it all she can say is no. And you only have 2 weeks in class left. Just as you said ask her if she wants to go out sometime. Or find out something she likes doing and invite her to something involved with it i.e concert,sports event!! Oh and the looks thing you said your no brad pitt i think you'll that almost every girl out there would rather have an average looking guy with a great personality and good sense of humour, than some1 who's gorgeous with a dull personality and is a twit. Good luck
2007-03-28 22:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep talking to her and let her kind of know you. Then give her you screenname of aim, msn, etc or myspace so that even if you guys dont see each other later on, you can always talk to her. Then if you guys have talked for awhile, you can make the move on her.
If you have never or barely talked to her before, it would be really awkward to ask her out of the blue when you barely knew the girl. Besides she might be taken, so talk to her for awhile to get to know her so you can save the humiliation of asking her out when she already has a bf.
2007-03-28 22:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a senior in high school but I took some college classes last semester to make up missing credits. This guy I sat next to passed me a note asking me out. It was totaly cute. We dated a few times before he transferred to a university up north. Its too bad it didn't work out, but it was still the cutest and funniest way I've ever been asked to get coffee after class.
2007-03-28 22:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you dont talk to her much; talk to her for the next week or so. then say something like 'Hey, fancy meetin up sometime after class?'
If you already talk then simply ask her 'wanna hang out after class sometime?'
im sure she'd appreciate it :)
or at the end of the class say you dont understand something and if you could possibly get some help later on. that worked for me =D
good luck :)
tenj
xxx
2007-03-28 22:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by tablesalt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Write a beautiful love song or poem for her.
2. Have the nerve to ask her out.
3. Be smart, + be you.
2007-03-28 22:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One thing you could do that would be cute is write on a peice of paper: Will you go out with me
Then put boxes underneath it with
yes
maybe
no
Then let her write her answer. That way if she rejects you it's not as humiliating.
2007-03-28 22:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your afraid of being rejected try to hint, or figure out some way you can get to knwo if she likes you.
2007-03-28 22:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by Je vous aime. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋