Two nights ago I was at a school event and met a guy who said he liked me. He was nice and friendly, but he hangs out with a questionable group of people who are known for dealing and using heavy drugs. We also had nothing in common and I found myself unattracted to him. But when he asked for my number, I still gave it to him, thinking that maybe I'd give him a chance and that at least he could be a friend. But when I got home and thought about it, I realized that I was leading him on and decided to end it. When he called the next day he was polite, but I told him that I just wanted to be friends and that I was too busy to see him outside of school. He seemed to take it well. But today he called again and left a message saying that since we couldn't go out after school, he wanted to see me during lunch and that he would find me at school. I know where he hangs out and I know I can't avoid him or his calls forever. How do I let him know I'm not interested?
2007-03-28 15:01:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him you're busy.
Talk with him.
Be pleasant.
You have something to do.
You have a project
You have to practice this thing
Whatever
He'll get the picture eventually (how long it will take, I don't know)
OR
You could do it the hard and fast way.
You can just tell him straight out - you got home and thought about it and now you regret giving him your number. Please don't call again. I know it sounds harsh and mean, but this way you can go on looking for other gf/bf more suitable. Thanks for your interest. Sorry for the inconvenience.
2007-03-28 15:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're OK with hanging out with him as a friend, say something to the effect, "I'll have lunch with you SINCE YOU'RE MY BUDDY". You might even address him as "friend". If he brings up romantic type dates, just tell him that this wouldn't be appropriate since people might think you're dating. If you want to stay far away from him and his crowd, be direct. "Thanks, but I don't want to hang out" would work. If he asks why, be honest. Maybe it will motivate him find a better path.
2007-03-28 22:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth that what a person you think he is and tell him you don't like hanging out with people like him.just be honest.That may help you.Good luck and may God bless you. ^-^
2007-03-28 22:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by monsiuer_reaper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, don't pick up the call.
2007-03-28 22:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by tSk1LLz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋