There are a few people at my school that pick on me, Im 13 7th grade. They call me gay and stuff. Its crazy. I have thoughts of suicide every day. And I try to convince my parents to not let me go to school that day, Any day at that. It really kills, Help please
2007-03-28 14:58:22 · 12 answers · asked by fsgjfsgj 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
tell your parents! dont' keep it to yourself or tell your teacher, keeping it to yourself is the worst thing to do , even if you feel embarrased telling teachers or your parents they will help you and you'll feel a lot better , and if worse comes to worse you can always move schools , i hope everything works out and you get the help you need. good luck
2007-03-28 15:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by dawn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am an adult and I went through a lot of teasing. Kids can be really mean. You just need to try and not let them see that it bothers you. They might leave you alone and find someone else to pick on. Just concentrate on your studies and show them that you can be somebody. Try your best to get through school with good grades. Most people that thought they were so much better then me are to druged up or thier life is worse then mine. I hope this helps. Stay strong and don't give up. Talk to a trusted adult or try writing a journal. This will make you feel better.
2007-03-28 15:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have my empathy. Could you ask your parents to check you into another school? No where is safe as far as bullying is concerned, including the workplace. But I'm saying this jusst so you understand the real world, not scaring you.
You could join a group of students who are like minded for studying or even activity purposes. That way you will be less seen as being alone for other bullies to see you that way. Even if you don't enjoy being in groups, you could learn to operate in some since this is the way the real world ought to operate, interdependency. Bullies cannot operate in/with any groups except their own - bully or be bullied, a very sad case of paranoia, if they don't grow out of this state.
Your parents don't seem to be helping defend you but don't be too hard on them either. Gently ask them to allow you to change schools or else request for some training classes on self defence. This is so that you can use the skill to defend yourself, not aggress against others. Use anothe skill wisely. Who knows, you may even draw some bullies to your side later, when they see you being so confident of yourself. Here is where you can gain a following and teach them to use their skills wisely.
you are worth it.....;)
2007-03-28 16:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by thru a glass darkly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let anyone get to you hon. You are what you answer to. Tell your parents the reason you dont want to go to school and ask for their help. If they dont help then go to another relative or the school counselor. This is not anything to have suicidal thoughts over. Not everyone is going to like you because of their own problems. It's not you...it's them. You have to realize that God loves you and so does your family. Anything else anyone says doesnt matter.
2007-03-28 15:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by joyfulndiva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the toughest part of growing up. It gets better as everyone matures. Find something that you enjoy at school and focus on that. Also, remember that they are trying to provoke a reaction from you, so don't give them the satisfaction. Block them out by concentrating on something else in your head so they don't exist. If it still gets to be too much, talk to your guidance counselor. You have a good life ahead of you, just get through the bumpy part of adolescence.
2007-03-28 15:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by Harbinger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far I see there are no answers to your post, and I don't want you to think that your problem is not important enough to answer.
It is a stupid, cruel, and evil thing that these people are doing to you. Very hurtful. It is really tough to put up with. It says a lot about them, and all of it is bad.
You have to tell your parents what is going on, why you don't want to go to school, and you have to tell them that you think of suicide. This is quite serious.
Awful as it is, as hurt as you are, it is still not worth killing yourself over. These people just picked you to pick on - if it wasn't you, it would be someone else just as undeserving of it.
Schools should have zero tolerance for bullying and hazing.
If I were your parent, I would find out who is doing this to my kid, and sue the crap out of their parents. That would stop it, for sure.
2007-03-28 15:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by sonyack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help. Tell your parents or any adult you can trust. Please. I care. Too much for answers. Don't let them get you down. Enjoy life, there is much out there to see, and learn. Having a hard childhood causes strength in adulthood. Try to find some friends, a hobby, group, team or club to join. The children at your school are mean. Find nice people. 25% are mean. 75% are good.
Love,
Jen
2007-03-28 15:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents what is going on! If you can't talk to them then tell a trusted teacher or adult. Bullying is illegal! These kids can go to jail. You really need to get some help.
2007-03-28 15:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by Kim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless and curse not. Act like it doesn't bother you ,like if someone says 'go to h...' you could say :'have a nice day', and then ignore them. Eventually they will leave you alone.Sometimes it works the opposite and they might want to be friends. I've seen it work that way.
2007-03-28 15:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Gary B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play sports man i used to be like that then i got big from working out then i picked back
2007-03-28 15:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by portuguesekid2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋