About five months ago me and my girlfriend (we are both 17) were having sex (we live together) and my 3 year old daughter walked in and caught us. We were embarrased and she was stunned. We were doing it on my bedroom bed, on the bed (not under the covers), and with the lights on so she saw everything clear. We told her we were cold because we were naked and we hugging to warm up. I guess she bought it because she has not mentioned it anymore. But has anyone else got caught doing it by your children? If so what was your excuse?
Please do not suggest we lock the door. I never lock the door in case of emergancy.
2007-03-28 14:56:07 · 16 answers · asked by Martin A Neville 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Me and my girlfriend (she is acutally my fiancee we will be married in less than two weeks) have been recoverign since what happened to her two weeks if any of you are wanderign how we are doing.
2007-03-28 14:57:50 · update #1
I hope no one barfs about this....lol
but my husband and I were playing a randy game of strip wheel of fortune, when my four year old walked in the living room. it served us right...but I don't think she was alarmed....(which was kind of weird)
I think she forgot. We are pretty affectionate people, and I think the kids will grow up knowing that loving is healthy and good.
That being said....when I was in junior high I walked into the bathroom, and there i saw the most frightening sight...
My mom and dad were on the floor, and she was combing and blow drying my dad's pubic hair!!! and to this day, I can't get that branding site out of my mind.
2007-03-28 15:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by sincerelysarah117 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes... I have its pretty god awful terrible. We have been caught only one time. We started a new system by installing a button system. In the room we have a little switch that turns on a red light, on the out side of the room. So they know not to enter with out pushing the bell button. They system is pretty basic and was not expensive. It has worked wonders and is easy enough for small children to use.
2007-03-28 22:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by lulubelle55555 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put something in front of your door on the side that your on..like a chair or something so that you arent locking the door but yet its gonna be a lil tough for her to get the door open. And use blankets or turn off the light next time or something.
2007-03-28 22:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a parent but i caught my parent having sex when i was young, it was shocking my mum tried to put it off as if it was nothing but unfortunely for them i had a very big mouth and would mention it everywhere i went. That's when my mum decided to tell me about the bird's and the bees which was the most confuding story ever.
2007-03-28 22:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by dare_ange1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never needed an "excuse" to have sex with my husband. But then I never got "caught" because we always locked our door. It is quite easy to UNlock the door from the inside if there is an emergency. There are also children's room monitors they kept us in the know. But considering your spelling I can understand why this would never have crossed your mind.
So all I can say is expect more getting caught, because it's going to happen, as for excuses, since you can't lock your bedroom door you're on your own there.
2007-03-28 22:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
All kids walk in on their parents at one time or another...lmao I still remember that dreadfull day when I was about 13. I was scarred for life....just kidding. Actually my girls have both walked in on us at one time or another. My kids are very, very good at faking sleep. We'd wait until they went to bed and then bam a half hour later we're getting into it and one of them walks in. Beware though. Kids have a tendency to repeat things they see and hear. Some children will repeat sounds....some will repeat....actions...They especially like to repeat the sounds and actions in front of their grandparents...lol
2007-03-28 22:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow some people have really responded to this rudely ['bout your age].
I've read your previous questions & it sounds to me like your a great father despite the age. Gosh I hate stupid people.
Anyways, I'm not a parent, but I've walked in on my parents. I got over it; I mean jeez, that's how I'm here.
2007-03-29 00:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try abstinence. Won't get caught, and then you won't have to worry about having more children that you obviously care less about than having sex. Holy cow, you're only 17.
2007-03-28 22:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by cilsavon 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
There is no excuse. If you have a child to care for, then you aren't supposed to be getting it on in another room completely naked with the lights on and in plain view. I cannot believe you did not have the foresight to think about this ahead of time. If you are not going to lock the door, then it looks like you have to put your sex life on hold until the child is asleep, think of HER well being instead of your hormones. And for the record, a three year old doesn't "buy" anything, she believes you because you are her parent and she trusts you. She has no reason yet not to.
2007-03-28 22:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by cvjade 3 · 3⤊ 5⤋
Put a bell on the door as a "warning". Tell her you were playing a game. At age 3, she will forget all about it by next week.
2007-03-28 22:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋