Me and my boyfriend have been datin for 1 yr and 6mo when I meant him he was currently stationed where I live. He was active duty for the war but he is now back in the army reserves. So now he is back in his home town. I just recently went down there to visit him and I had the mostly wonderful time. I didnt want to come back. I have wanting to move from my hometown for a long time and he was going to move to where I am but I want to move to where he is. A couple of people told me that I shouldnt move to because we arent married. But I dont want to stay long distance forever and I dont to get married to him just so I can be with him. I do want to get married but not just so I can be with him on a regular basis. Please give me your input cause this has been on my mind for a while.
2007-03-28 14:53:31 · 9 answers · asked by Miss T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you and your boyfriend are the only two people who matter in this decision. It sounds as though you and he are certain of your commitment to one another, and that you plan on a future together. Personally, If you are happy relocating to be with him, then you should follow your heart. Do not let your friends or others influence your decision, after all it is your future. If your boyfriend wants you to move to his home state, then that is the only reason that I would need. Good Luck, and the best to you both. I believe" you can go home", if you ever want to go back to your hometown.
2007-04-05 06:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
where dose he live? is there anything there for you besides him? would you have thought about moving there if he never existed? sad fact is that you have to think about it as if you guys might break up tomorrow or something. moving is a pretty big decision and he should definately not be your only reason for moving. if there is everything there for you then go for it. but if you are just going to be there waiting for him to get off work everyday you arent going to be too happy.
hope that helps
good luck
2007-04-05 07:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance is hard, but I would say if he cant be with you ,then I would move on. But, if he is in the service and if he has a choice as to where hell live, it should be near you. To me if there is no other reason for him not to move near you, I would not go .I wish you luck!
2007-04-05 14:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by mybudnoobs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, thats wrong with society today they think you should get married to someone in order to move with them...i would cause you never know how someone is unless you move with them.I think you should do what you think is right cause the other ppl dont have to live there..
2007-03-28 15:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by marie8701 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he loves you he will move where you are. he can adjust to changes alot better than you because of being in the army reserves. it is hard to adjust when a person makes a big move especially if you have close family and friend ties.
2007-04-05 14:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by leapyrangels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance is always a challenge! I think u should tell him that u want to be near him more. maybe u could move in with him? I think u should discuss it together and come up with a mutual answer.
2007-04-05 14:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl all i got to say is follow your heart cause you dont have to be married to be with a man. i say go for it.
2007-04-05 12:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by jasminwalker23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to be with him, dont mind what other people say.
2007-04-05 14:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by konfuzed_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack your stuff and go to him.. forget other folks.. do it for yourself.
2007-04-05 04:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋