Ok so I really like this girl, and I have since about a year ago when we first met. Well I think that if I asked her out now it would work, but I have a major dilemma comming up very quick. I am going to college out of state and will not be comming home very often, and I have a feeling that if things worked out that me and this girl would last for a long time. I have heard that I should talk with her and stuff, but I guess I am looking for other opinions on what you think I should do. Basically do I ask her out....or not.. Thanx..
2007-03-28 14:51:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you were going out with her ... options:
(1) Go the Long Distance Relationship
- fraught with peril and paranoia, but possibly worthwhile
(2) Break up and see other people
- if it was meant to be, it was meant to be (but not everyone believes in this form of determinism)
Ummm
Ask her out. See what she says. Go for it for a while and talk with her - let her know early on that you are planning on college out of state. Also let her know that you are torn about it because you think that the two of you have a chance for happiness together.
(Otherwise she might think you're just in it for a quick fling)
2007-03-28 14:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have no doubt that it would work out if your were not going out of state. If you want to you can probably see how it goes and hope it lasts the summer. But dont plan on trying to make it work through out college. Fact is right know that seems like it will work but once you get into college your life will change and you will meet other people. You need to have a social life in college with girls. Once your in college the relationship can not be held together. Your to far to see eachother frequently. You will also bring down your college social life when people know you are not free. In college their will be million more opportunities. SO my advice will be either ask her out but plan on breaking up before you go to college or dont ask her out at all.
2007-03-28 14:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. And have a great time. If you feel your chances are pretty good for a relationship, go for it. Only then should you tell her about the college thing. There are many others before who have had great successes with long-distance relationship, it can work for you too. Good luck in college and in the romance department.
2007-03-28 15:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by tin2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend everybody knows that long distance relationships dont work usually somebody ends up chetaing on the other but on the other hand if u really feel a connection ask her out remeber u dont want to be that guy that later on in life regrets desicions made or not made
2007-03-28 14:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by joker188st 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels like a large theory. :) friends do, in spite of each little thing, provide each and each others presents. even nevertheless, you reported, "something so she would be in a position to no longer ignore approximately me". Does that recommend you have extra emotions for her than in simple terms as a buddy? Do you think of the purpose of the present is so which you wish she would not "make friends" with different adult males as close as you 2 have been? in simple terms curious. I caught that remark and questioned what different available motives that's advisable to grant her a present day for? If it does ensue to be "in simple terms friends" kinda present, then maybe something she could want in her dorm room could be a competent present to grant her. ultimate of success in college to the the two certainly one of you. ~~~~~~~~~~~~
2016-11-24 20:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if she has a strong personality and she can wait...ask her out..
if she has this mood swing, then its better not coz she'll sell u out the moment you leave the country....
on another opinion...ask her out and hope for the best!
2007-03-28 14:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by aziz_aron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that if you choose to ask her out, be upfront about your situation. Ask her if she thinks it could work and if she would be willing to try it. Then go from there...
2007-03-28 14:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋