How do you like my relationship story?

Question

I was always really shy, in 11th grade I was finally starting to get over it but I was still ignorant in all aspects of relationships. Suddenly this girl starts flirting with me. I was weak (I had no confidence) and was scared to talk to her. A sadies dance was coming up and another girl wanted to ask me. She (who I liked) backed off since she felt sorry for her. I got up the nerve to call her, her mom answered (I snapped). Spring break to snowboarding to broken collar bone to vicodin to depression. Eventually I told her all that I had felt and exposed my feelings and weakness and naturally she became unattracted. This killed me because I had an oppertunity she even said "we should hang out sometime" but my brain was not functioning properly and I over analysed. I went on a date but it was nothing. Finally I'm in 12th (and much wiser/more confident) and its near prom and she likes my friend (I dont think he returns her feelings) and I cant help being attracted to her. Shortened Story

Answer 1

i think you should go up to her and ask her to the prom. who knows what she would say. Be honest and open to her. The worst she could do is say "NO". and thats just a word. But i would do it soon incase she says no so you have time to look for another date don't you think??? I wish you the best and i hope she says yes cause you sound like a decent guy. Good luck and keep us informed. alright!!

Answer 2

ask her to prom and hope for the best. maybe she's put all your old history behind her. you won't knwo if you don't ask and 10 years down the road, you won't be asking "what if...?" good luck