What if you been with your boyfriend for years, then youand him get into a real bad fight and he hits you. He's never done it before, and he was really upset would you continue to there. "And for the men what do you think of an abusive man ?"
2007-03-28 14:48:21 · 9 answers · asked by Baby C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would break up with him because once a hitter- always a hitter. My ex boyfriend did this to me and I stuck around because I believed him when he cried and said that he would never do it agan. He did though. Again. And again.
2007-03-28 14:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by h_nanny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always said I would leave the first time a guy abused me, but when it actually happend I stayed and it just got worse. I was in an verbally and physically abusive relationship for 2 1/2 years and he ended it 2 weeks ago. Its not worth it...the longer you stay the lower your self-esteem and self-confidence gets and the harder it is to leave. The less time you spend in an abusive relationship the better. Get out! Its not worth it and he will do it again...no matter what he says or the reasons he gave. He will do it again.
2007-03-29 11:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave . leave hI'm now. im not joking this is horrible. this cycle will repeat and ma bey next time you wont be so lucky. no guy should EVER hit a girl he loves. do whatever you can to leave him today. call your mom your friends who ever to get you away from him before he makes you feel guilty for him hitting you. because that is what he will do , and then apologize and do it all over again.
2007-03-28 21:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by A Whisper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think he's a loser and you only hit people in an argument because they disagree with you and want to force them to agree. so if you don't like doing your own thing and having an opinion in your life and just being and empty shell of a human being go for it.
2007-03-28 21:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by FengHuaXueYue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there before. My ex got angry at me and then pushed me. I gave him another chance but things didn't work out and I could never really forgive him for that. He never did push me again but he left me alone in public whenever he's angry. His temper never will change.
Trust me, guys who hits or pushes gals, they will do it again.
2007-03-28 21:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first even if its the first time he had hit you its still wrong! he had done it once he can do it again. no matter how upset he is. if he really respect you he wouldn't even try.
2007-03-28 21:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by angel_yhuan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him one last chance. Hopefully he'll make up for it with flowers and choclates or something
He does it again, kick him in the cajones, and run away crying
2007-03-28 22:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jimmy Dean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk but if you do decide to stay with him and he ever does it to you again go on your knees and break down in tears in front of him. that will make him feel so bad. anyway if i were you i wouldnt get back together with him
2007-03-28 21:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up for both of you to talk over
2007-03-28 21:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋