i've been crushing on my guyfriend for about a year. i just read on his myspace page that he is deeply in love with his girlfriend and would kill if someone hurt her. that message almost made me cry. please help me before i'm depressed. how to get over this boy?
2007-03-28 14:47:19 · 23 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aw I'm so sorry. Listen, if he doesn't like you by now, don't pay alot of attention to him. That does two good things
1) Gets you over him sooner
2) Makes him miss your attention and may actually realize he likes you
try it and see if it works. let it go for awhile.
good luck
2007-03-28 14:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make yourself understand and accept that it is very sweet that he feels that way about his girlfriend and that's the reason why you care for him so much. Accept the fact that you have good taste in men obviously. If you really care for him then you would and want him to have the best love he can have even if that's without you...doing this inside will make you feel better. Be his friend. For some reason I feel his girlfriend might not be as in love as he is and if that's the case he will need a friend if things come falling apart. In the meanwhile guys don't see us when we are so in to them get quiet and not be so available this will help you move on. If it is meant to be it will be just stand back out of his way and be happy about who you are with or without him because deserve a guy to feel that way about you too. make yourself busy and don't stand by waiting on him see others and get busy I think you will find a new crush soon too open your options.
2007-03-28 14:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by tressroy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there time and time again unfortunately. But the only thing that you can do is just try to put that person out of your mind. Also think about it he didn't tell you no or anything it's just that he has a girlfriend so it shouldn't make you feel too bad because at least he didn't turn you down or something. And if it was meant to be then the two of you will be together one day. Good luck
2007-03-28 14:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had my share of crushes let me tell you - so here's what I've done: Access the situation. Is the object of your crush in a relationship with someone else and if so are they a solid couple or are they together just "because". Does the person you like KNOW you exist or that you're interested? Are you friends with this person and willing to lose that friendship just to tell them? These are ALL questions you should think hard on. If this ISN'T something you feel you should pursue, then I suggest you busy yourself in other things to keep your mind off it. (Yeah I know-so easy to say). Honestly if you just take yourself out of your usual routine and keep busy you'll start noticing other cute people out there and perhaps even wonder why you liked the crush to begin with. Good Luck.
2007-03-28 14:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by karenramel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your first love...you may never truly be rid of these feelings for him...but time heals all wounds...your feelings feel very intense now...but you are probably young and have your entire life in front of you..there will be many other men in your life, if you so choose...
...bottom line, tell him how you feel and see if he has any feelings for you...if he doesnt...let him go!! dont worry, they always come back...could be a day a month a year or a decade...trust me they ALWAYS come back....
one other way to look at it is, when you are friends with a guy and have a romantic relationship...if it doesnt work out..your friendship can never be recaptured. maybe its best that you just stay friends.
2007-03-28 15:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that,
there is (nothing) worse than watching the one you care for/love being in love/loving somebody else.
Believe me,I've been there before,as the matter of fact...I think we've all have been there before.
I think you should just stay busy,
don't stay home and hang with your head down,your SOULMATE is out there somewhere,and he's not gonna come knocking on your door unless he's working for FEDEX or so.... :)
Hang out with your girlfriends,go to the movies,hit the gym,take any kinds of classes,get into a hobby,go bowling,play billiards,travel...whatever you may like to give your thoughts a break!
You'll get over it faster,and who knows,you may just run into THE ONE!
Take advantage of this,if there is anything you should not have together,it's time to straighten it out now.
Get your stuff together,there is nothing more TURN ON than a WOMAN/MAN that has got his/her stuff together,is vibrant/positive/intelligent,independant and fun to be around.
If you do so,who knows,your dreamlover just may come YOUR WAY!
You'll find yourself having to "fight off" guys rather than being rejected.
Good luck!
2007-03-28 14:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You realize that this is a crush and not mutual love. That's a start.
There will be other boys and other loves.
One day there will be a love that dwarfs all others.
By then you'll forget about whats-his-name.
It'll hurt for a bit, then go away.
2007-03-28 14:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let that bother or hurt you. He is not the only guy in the world. Meet someone different before you start to get depressed and you will get over him. Someone will write something nice about you too if give someone else a chance by meeting more guys, you will.
You are welcome to join my group on this link and make friends, that might help distract you. http://sports.groups.yahoo.com/group/wrestlingtoivi/
2007-03-28 14:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by Davey Boy Smith #1 Fan- VACATION 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really cant do anything about how you feel about him. All you can do is hide your feelings or tell him.It may be a little odd though .my freind was just like you thoughe she told him how she felt and they ended up dating for half a year.
If you dont want to tell him about your crush then try to get a boyfriend.
2007-03-28 14:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know crushes are really rough to get over. Just know that they really are just that. CRUSHES. they are not marriage and certainly aren't going to drastically effect the rest of your life. i know that is hard to believe now, but you will get over it. stay friends because it works both ways. When he and his new GF are on the rocks, who is he gonna run to for advice? YOU, as long as you make yourself available. You are gonna be fine but I know from experience that it hurts. Its sucks and it will for a little while but you will get over it and it will make you stronger. REMEMBER this happened for a reason and you will be fine!
2007-03-28 14:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by chica</3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋