i need to know peoples opinion to see what they think or what they see in a lesbian, i am a lesbian, ill let you know that im 16 and i love girls and i love who i am. what do you guys think?
theres also this really cute girl in my school that seems wow, way too perfect for me and i dont know whats this feeling i get when i see her, shes beautiful inside and out but she has a boyfriend so i dont know what to do...lol..
2007-03-28 14:42:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the girl you're attracted to has a boyfriend, she's not your type. Leave her alone. And be patient: there is nothing wrong with you and over time you will learn how to meet people like yourself. You may well meet someone with whom you wish to share your life for the rest of your lives. Perhaps by that time more communities will accept gay and lesbian marriages. At any rate, you're very young and will have to sort out how you let your parents know and how you deal with the unavoidable prejudice you will encounter. You didn't choose to be the way you are. But you'll have to choose how you respond to affronts. Check around in your community; there should be a support group somewhere nearby. Good luck - but again, leave that other girl alone. She's not for you.
2007-03-28 15:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lesbians have a harder time than most... there's little chance you'll find someone to date in high school, since the small amount of people that are gay probably have a hard time admitting it.
At the same time, I really respect you for being okay with yourself... it's hard at this age. I wouldn't really treat a lesbian any different than I would anyone else, no flirting would happen, of course, but I'd wouldn't mind a lesbian friend. Give me a cool alternate perspective on things... and I could talk about girls with her :-P
-AOS
2007-03-28 14:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Atrophy OS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join the schools Gay Straight Alliance club
they will plenty of people u can meet
if ur school doesnt have one then try other local schools
or wait till u get to college
every college has one
also u can try websites like yahoo personals, myspace, facebook there are plenty of local people out there
and u'll find the right person for you
and concerning the girl who has a boyfriend
just respect that she is dating someone
and its best to leave her alone
good luck
2007-03-28 19:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by jinx_0334 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My name is jeremy I'm fifteen. First of all lesbians are hot and almost every mans dream to go out with... lol jk Lesbians are cool be proud of you are and don't always care about what other people think. I think it's overated how everyone gets into other peoples buisness. I wish you well.
2007-03-28 14:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by jeremy_rrush_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are cool with me as long as they don't try anything with me but I'm not shallow and I know that's not usually what lesbians do.
As for the girl in your class, get over her. She's not interested. Don't ever go after a girl with a boyfriend. Go for a girl who is sure of herself the way you are
2007-03-28 14:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's straight ur not so get over it plus all girls know that straight boys would love to have a threesome with 2 girls.
u can love or like anybody u want it's a free country
2007-03-28 14:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by King_Sean93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love them as long as there hot. forget about the other girl shes not on the same side of the fence as u
2007-03-28 14:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
um u cant do anything...u should wait and one day u will find a lesbian girl
2007-03-28 14:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i find lesbians to be very attractive...
2007-03-28 14:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't care as long as they don't bother me
2007-03-28 14:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by 38C 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋