Love hurts sometimes ... how can you forget the past feelings and persue your life?
2007-03-28 14:41:53 · 10 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sara--one thing to remember about life is --nothing is guaranteed--and you have to work for what you want. Not just as a job --but in relationships too. Any relationship--friends, boyfriends,whatever !! Sometimes you can try so hard that a failure seems to be the end of the world---and it does hurt to fail...that is a fact. But FAILURE is part of life also--we all have to take the good with the bad. Let's say a failure came from mistakes we made---well, we should learn from our mistakes. Mistakes in love are something millions of people have made--we eventually learn to move on and meet new people, or better people, or people better suited for ourselves. It takes two to ruin a relationship---and it takes two to make a relationship work---so find a real nice young man and see if you can make a relationship that does bring some happiness--and avoid the mistakes you may have made before. And if it fails again, just move on and try a new guy. It will work if you give it time. Now as a side note---set your standards high--NEVER settle on just any guy--to say you have one---that is all wrong--better to be alone than to be with a creep or a jerk. You can attract a nice guy by being a well educated, well groomed, respectful young lady---who stands tall, demands respect, speaks well, and is morally upright.
Sorry that you had a disappointment--we all have them---but we all survive---so see each new day as a present to make the most of---yesterday is gone and tomorrow is a mystery. I know you will do well and I wish you all the luck and happiness you desire. Bye
2007-03-28 15:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of the beautiful life ahead of you, and don't look back at the bad things in your past. Surround yourself with suportive people that you love and that love you, and that will help you move on. You'll find love again. Good luck!
2007-03-28 21:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you will learn to forgive the person that hurt you, and wholeheartedly accept all the things that happened, pain will get out of your system. As the days passes by you will slowly recover untill you have totally recoverd. You can pay attention to other guys if you wat to. Thats the process of moving on.
2007-03-28 21:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by dale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy... Drugs +1 haha just kiddin
all you must do is...... GET OVER it. it may be hard but pft ssheeeesh No need to cry... There is no such thing as TRUE love in my book. Go find you another one
do it all the time
2007-03-28 21:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by S.A.T.H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can eat it over with ice cream, that always help. But you try to just live your life by hanging around with friends and by talknig to them. Tell someone about how you feel and you will feel better.
2007-03-28 21:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by Brendan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am going thru the same kinda heartbreak. the correct answer is to just move on, realize that love doesn't have to be about drama.
2007-03-28 21:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by m.wright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time for those feelings to fade, but you cannot forget...
2007-03-28 21:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet new people
2007-03-28 21:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take ur mind off of him by hanging out with freinds or family. stay active itll help get ur mind off of him. dont waste ur life thinkin bout sum1 who doesnt luv u bac, go out and find one who does. i mean wat good does it do to moop? nope. bestz luck
2007-03-28 21:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by krissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usually got o my friends..but fails..so i also dont know...sorry...try to do something to keep u distracted..
2007-03-28 21:46:06 · answer #10 · answered by legendkiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋