I broke up with my bf over 3 months ago. He hurt me a lot, he used me, lied to me, neglected me, yelled at me, put me down with insults. I dont miss him at all, & I dont want him back.
I have been doing fine, but the problem is that I hear from him a lot because we share the same friends. We have a lot of the same really good friends. A few of my friends who are also his friend know what he did to me and when they first found out they thought he was a complete jerk and they consoled me, and im forever grateful for that. But recently, it seems like they are all accepting him again. They are being really nice towards him and whatnot. When I see them being friendly with him, it really hurts me. I know they are his friends too & Its none of my business who he is friends with but It just kind of hurts to see them being so friendly towards him when they know what he did to me.
Should I talk to my friends about the way I feel? Or am I just being ridiculous?
2007-03-28 14:41:03 · 2 answers · asked by anna a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh you must mean your EXfriends!
2007-03-28 14:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by cindy 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to have a heart to heart with your friends. Ask THEM what they think you should do. Explain that you know it's not fair for them to not see him, etc., but ask if they have any ideas!
Personally, I wonder about people and how insensitive they can be. It seems that they could 'lighten up' a little when you and your Ex are thrown together.
And remember, girls can have ulterior motives. If he's available, well....you know what that means...fair game.
If you have some more sensitive, caring friends, you might want to hang with them for awhile. This whole thing needs more space and time.
2007-03-28 22:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by Eve 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋