My ex and I have been talking on and off for about 3yrs, but recently it ended again due to another girl. As we were talking through it (or as i was yelling at him) he told me that he had fallen in love with me and he was sorry about the other girl. They are now dating but he still stares at me and hes always in my conversations. Why is he still in my life when he has "supp" moved on with someone else?
2007-03-28 14:39:44 · 13 answers · asked by babbyy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may still have feelings for you, you know the old saying you don't know what you've got till it's gone well maybe now he realizes that you are what he wants. Relationships are not always happy and there are ups and downs, if you still care for him and he hasn't been a fool or used or abused you and you want to you could give him another chance and take it slow and find out how you really feel for him and just go from there or if you have already moved on don't look back. If you try to stay friends with him and he has feelings for you and you don't want to be involved with him romantically it will be very difficult for you to be friends cause when he sees you with another guy he will get jealous and may cause you to loose him as a friend anyway.
2007-03-28 14:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by patricia g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he hasn't moved on now, hasn't he? He is on the rebound trying very hard to get over you. The only problem is he is still tied to the past three years which isn't so easy to get over with. Too bad for the other girl he's seeing because he isn't being fair to her. He's already told you he loves you on top of admitting his regrets about her. How much more can be going on with him? He's stuck on you and he's kind of using this other girl to try to make him forget you. That and he may be trying to make you jealous. There is no clear cut remedy for his dilemma other than for him to be alone for awhile so he can sort out his emotions and stop making all this inner turmoil for himself and causing all this drama that is involving everyone concerned.
2007-03-28 21:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not even know what he wants. Perhaps to keep you waiting in wings for backup? You deserve more than to be backup - you deserve the full spotlight. For YOUR sanity, I encourage you to shut the door on any communication with him. I'm serious, cut him off from any emotional support. He has established a pattern of "flakiness" with you and that pattern will continue. There is someone out there who will love and appreciate you for who you are. The man you are meant to be with a man who will make you feel like number 1.
2007-03-28 21:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE YOU ARE LETTING HIM. You need to move on yourself, and let it be known to him. If he is with someone else then it is obvious he is not serious, so do not let him dictate your actions...it is unhealthy for you both so just cut the ties and move on with your life. Then he will have no choice but to do the same. Good Luck
2007-03-28 21:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by cvjade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you allow him the open door. If you set the rules that you will not be as easy going with up, he will either step up and/or move on but you don't want to be with someone that is confusd about you, you want to be with someone that is sure and confident! Good luck!!!
2007-03-28 21:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by sweetdreams_0423 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you need to move on yourself.In a broken relationship both people need closure and that is my suggestion for you.
2007-03-28 21:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jim C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you need to have no contact with each other whatsoever so that both of you can have closure and can fully move on with your lives with other people...
2007-03-28 21:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're not moving on, let go of him, find another guy and you'll forget him.
2007-03-28 21:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by dale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you haven't completely and permanently shut the door. Shut it, lock it and throw away the key...for your own sanity.
2007-03-28 21:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by Michele D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him that yourself. perhaps it just didn't work our with you and will never, but you think it can. just move on and find another guy. you know there are plenty of them out there.
2007-03-28 21:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋