okay so me and this guys i like text and talk to eachother all the time we both have admiding to liking eachother and we decided to be friends with benefits for a while. we eventually both wanteed to date but right now it isnt right for either of us. so we have had plans to hang out onn friday and do stuff and we texted to day for a couple hours while i was in schoool and then when i was tanning at at the store too. him his dad and my mom and i all met at the store and went to dinner. we all laughed and had a great time at dinner. so then on my way home we texted and he said that he didnt want to hang out. i dont understand....before he was like you are getting condoms right and then after he was like i dont want to hang out.....i dont know what i did i didnt think that i did anything wrong but i dont know can anyone please help me.... i really want him badd..... even if i do deserve better.......what should i do?
2007-03-28 14:33:16 · 11 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and his parentss love me they want us to get together
2007-03-28 14:39:28 · update #1
it would really help if we knew how old you are. but if you are in school u are most likely 18 or younger... Friends with benefits is never a good idea... i say move on
2007-03-28 14:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his parents said something about you to him. Something that stopped him from going further. I don't agree with this new, supposedly hip trend, of Friends with Benefits.
This is just a game that can cause serious problems for many teens. No commitment, untrue, for many girls get attached to the guy, or jealous if the guy sees another girl.
Their are alot of diseases out there, and this casual, and irresponsible behavior is dangerous. What if a girl gets accidentally pregnant? Who is going to take the responsibility? Why is there no self-control today with teens? Sex was made for two mature adults, who are married. Thus the two together can be responsible for anything that happens, like a pregnancy.
Try to think twice about this, and wait. My girls, and boys are going to be taught that this is wrong. What do your parents think of this idea, of casual sex?
Go talk to the guy, and find out what is up, only he can tell you the truth.
2007-03-28 22:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes family interactions are difficult to decipher, and it could be that this not too good BF of yours didn't like your mom.
Or, possibly, his dad didn't like you and is advising his son to stay away from you. Ask your BF about this. You might get an honest answer.
I have often been disappointed by family members of GF and friends.
Maybe he got cold feet. It doesn't sound like he's offering you much anyway ("friends with benefits" can very rapidly turn into "boy do I feel used and exploited.")
2007-03-28 21:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the problem with "hooking up". Everyone says that feelings aren't involved...that it is only sex.
However if that was the case, you would have no problems with it and would be looking elsewhere to satisfy what is claimed to be only a physical need.
Might it be possible that you need to re-evaluate this whole "friendship with benefits" thing? In my humble 38 years experience, it never works out well for anyone involved.
2007-03-28 21:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.... I could tell you what i think but it will only be an opinion. You will not know unless he tells you. So don't stress! Ask him why he don't wanna hang out no more....
2007-03-28 21:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by larua_2005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some guys dont like to let their parents know that they like the girls that their parents approve of.
just talk to him and ask him whats wrong
if you wanna talk e-mail me.
2007-03-28 22:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by blair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him snd ask what is going on. He is most likely confused and stuff. Let it take time. you to are rushing it. ok.
2007-03-28 21:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
His parents dont like you...your S O L
find another booty call
2007-03-28 21:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get a boyfriend - friends with benifits are stupid.
2007-03-28 21:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him y he doesnt want to c u anymore
2007-03-28 21:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by krissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋