I like this guy and so does my friend....but now she is going out with him...?

Question

Ok my friend kaila likes this guy chris...and so do i.... well chris is nice..emo...hot! and he is nice to everyone so there is no telling who he likes and when...but kaila asked him out and he said yes....but now im very upset and kaila always gets the guy she wants..and..uhmn...i dont...im pretty but not as pretty as kaila....and well I WANT CHRIS FOR ME!!! please people help me before i lose the guy i want and my best friend...cuzz it will happen!!!

Answer 1

Ooops

Sounds like she's cutting your lunch, girl.

Get a verify from Chris

"Kaila says you two are going out! What's the deal here?"

And be blunt.

If they are - too bad. Back off and find someone else.

And have a good think about finding a new best friend. Anyone who is constantly grabbing the guys you are interested in might need to learn a lesson about girls needing to stick together and communicate.

Once you get the verify from Chris, have a heart to heart with Kaila. Tell her that she's been your best friend for so long and you can't believe that she'd do something so callous. She knew you were keen on Chris. WTF? She's obviously trying to grind you into the ground and stomp on your self esteem. Ask her what her game is.

(Or tell her: she's a pretty girl who needs self esteem by getting the things other people want)

Answer 2

its alway hard when something like this happens, i think you should talk to the guy about it, let him make the choise, he might of said yes to your friend to go out on a date but he might of done that because he was flattered at the fact that she asked him and the fact that he does like her, if he knows you like him, then he can think on it and choose, he may be going out with her but if doesnt mean he has deep feeling for her, you never know he might like you alot more and choose you

but be careful on this because you could end up losing your friend,

if he says he only likes you as a friend well thats good, you may not be together but maybe you can be a good close friend to him, i know its not the same but theres not much else you can do,

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Answer 3

Only if you let it happen. Dang! She had the guts to get the guy, now let her have him. Find a new guy! If you two arent the ones together then it prob wasnt meant to be. Stop being so selfish!