how do u...?

Question

how do u know if ur pretty. i dont really get guys asking me out, i have a little bit of pimples, but not alot of people say i am pretty. i feel unloved (by a guy) and not pretty. and no matter how much affort i put into my looks, i am a dork and still get no guys!! *sigh* :( any answers are welcome, but only if they help.

p.s. if ur not pretty how do u become pretty.

i have really cute clothes, i have been told tht. and i wear a lil' makeup. i am brunette.

Answer 1

Try wearing spandex and maybe get your nails did

Answer 2

Well, pretty or not, a dynamic personality will win hearts. If you feel awkward or shy around guys, check out Toastmasters, or a similar program that helps people speak to small and large groups.

The confidence you exude after a program like this will do wonders to attracting positive attention.

If you're having trouble maximizing your looks, invest a little in a professional make over. If the first look created just doesn't feel right, go to a different salon and try try again.

Men are a lot like women, they love confidence and a put together, not over-done, look. Sometimes, it's what we don't do that achieves the best results.
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Answer 3

Lola, everyone is an individual..that means people should accept YOU for who YOU are...you have talents and abilities that are unique to you. That is what is important to focus on. Millions of people have acne, millions of people seem to be plain...and they all eventually do well in life. It is natural to wonder when--but you cannot rush nature--it will happen !! Now what you want to look at is your clothes--are you dressing appropriately for your age, do you speak like an educated person, do you groom nicely, are you respectful and courteous, are you doing well in school, are you into a sport or have hobbies that are interesting??? All these things are what makes you an attractive individual. You are over reacting to what does not matter---enhance your entire self. Stand tall, be proud, hang with nice people and be both a good talker and listener. Now your priorities in life at your young age are school and home. Take pride in these 2 areas--then what time you have available, you can start to be concerned with social stuff. I bet you will be known for being a sensible, fun, smart young lady that any REAL NICE young man will be proud to date. Keep it light and fun--no sex and no easy attitude towards making out---you don't want a bad reputation just because you think that is what the boys want. You will only attract a bad type.Have standards and stick to them. You have a long life to enjoy the social scene--so take it easy and relax, smile, be nice and good luck.

Answer 4

Many people feel the same. Getting a grasp on your looks is one of the most difficult things to do. It is called acceptance. You have to accept the person you are, unless you have millions of dollars to waist. If you change your looks for a guy, then realize you want a different guy, but he likes a different type of look, then you are trapped into changing your looks again, and again, and again. When will you be happy? Accepting yourself is the hardest thing in life to do. You can increase your looks for you, but what you behold is far deeper than what others behold. Simple things can be done to help your looks, but in the end, it is you that has to look in the mirror and either see Frankenstein or you staring back at you from the mirror. Your decision, but think a lot before any major changes. Good Luck.

Answer 5

The best thing to be is be yourself! You want a guy to like you for you and not the way you look. Don't let this (people not saying your pretty enough) take a toll on your self esteem. Have confidence in yourself and don't dwell on just that aspect of your life.

But if you want to give yourself a pamper, and can afford it, go get a facial, spa treatment, maybe a new hair-do or even a wardrobe change... Do something special for yourself!

Everyone is pretty and beautiful in their own ways. It's not always about looks, remember that!

Wish the best of luck... and hope this was helpful!

Answer 6

Lola,
If your not pretty don't worry about it some guy will like you for who you are and what you got inside not how you look! With your pimples try Proactive. It works! Guys don't care they see a girl they go what ever. Give it some time. Do you know what Lola means? Gorguis. True! Don't worry about your looks guys will catch on. Don't be so downy. You are not a dork! Have you ever meet a dork? Don't think about it! Good luck! More questions? E-mail me!

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Answer 7

well you could get pretty if you fix your hair nice and wear little make-up and maybe buy clothes that are in style these days, u might get a guy to at least ask you out. But also you should feel comfortable how you look. And don't say ur ugly cause there might be a guy that thinks you are pretty but can't say it.

Answer 8

Boys are truly attracted to confidence. So not so much how you look but how you carry yourself. If you don't make eye contact and always look down you never even know if boys are checking you out. Its ok to be a dork Im a dork but I never show it. When I step out I pretend to be confident.
All that aside before you ever "look" pretty you have to feel pretty. So before you leave the house everyday take that little extra step into how you look.

Answer 9

beauty is skin deep it dose not matter whats on the outside , it is were your hart is if you are caring and loving to everybody then u are beautiful Jesus tells use to love one another as our self by doing that you have more beauty than anyone you know how some people will have a car and you might think that is is a bomb or looks bad but they will say to you but i like it it is dependable it starts up all the time and is good on gas it gets me from point a to point b well do they love that car i hope this helps you a little but if it dont try to read the bible a little and ask god to give you the answer and he will

Answer 10

maybe its the personality ya got, hot chix just got an advantage but i would still date an OK looking gurl or a lil on the not pretty side. are u funny, r u calm, chill? and dont b**ch at the guys thats a #1 no no
talk to people alot and be nice, find somthing your good at and show it but dont brag
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Answer 11

When people say it's what is on the inside that counts, that is true. No matter what you look like, guys are more likely to respond to your attitude and body language. If you are confident and sure of yourself, without being overbearing, then people will notice you. You can doll yourself up all you want, but that won't help you get noticed. Be confident and pro-active. Go try and get what you want, if you don't get it, try something else.