I am 30 y/o and living in Los Angeles. I used to live in New York a year ago, and there is this dancer at a strip club there that I am in love with. I used to go see her all the time in the Champagne Room. We get along really great and she is always telling me how happy she is to see me and how sucky it is that I had to move to LA. I still fly out to NYC about once a month just to see if I can catch her working. Am I being really retarded? She's 23 and is supermodel hot and she talks really cute and she's single.
2007-03-28 14:29:04 · 6 answers · asked by market_cap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you infatuated or what ? Take a deep breath and zoom out and think big picture. Having said that, I think everyone should not be judged by what they do. But sometimes what they do becomes who they are. If you are really serious, zoom out. Think straight. For there are consequences. And I must tell you, sex is the easiest way to be "soul mated" to another. Work out a plan. A long term plan for the relationship. Then if you still think Ok, Go for it with all gusto !!
2007-03-28 14:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you are being really retarded. She's a stripper - she makes her living by being nice to guys like you. I'll bet while you "catch her working" you are extremely generous with the tip money, because, well, you are "special" to each other. Tell you what, while on your way to the airport in LA one afternoon, stop in one of the many adult entertainment establishments there. I'll guess you can find another 23 year-old supermodel hot single girl that talks really cute and if you tip her with the few hundred a month you'll have not spent on air fare, will likely be as friendly or moreso than the girl in NYC.
2007-03-28 14:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mangy Coyote 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well i know a stripper and tey get nervous whne a stranger is always there it makes it out to be stalker like....but if you realy like her like that tell her and see what she says if she is interested she will be very kind and say yes if she was just being nice to get your money then leave her alone and kmove on but you never know until you try...o yea if you arent her type get a girl with a more respectible job like dr. or somthing...just some advise...wish you the best of luck..
2007-03-28 15:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by EMO ELMO 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with the fact that you love the stripper. The issues really lie in the world that this girl lives in. Are you sure you are ready to deal with the nasty dirty people who populate that Sin City world?
2007-03-28 14:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's ok, if you get married get a job that can support you both so you don't get cheated on....lol I bet she makes a lot of money.Your taking advice from a fifteen year old..lol If you take my advice and go out with her make sure to send me pics of her ok!!! I'm out.
2007-03-28 14:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by jeremy_rrush_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude think about it would you be giving her as much money as you do if she didn't act like that to you... she's a stripper thats her job man to act like that is she really did like you at all you wouldn't have to go to the strip club to see her... shes just doing her job man... sorry to burst your bubble
2007-03-28 14:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by liizerk 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋