PLEASE help me! :)?

Question

i still like my ex bf and i knoe he still likes me, but hes too shy to ask me out cuz hes scared i wont liek him bac. but i even told his friend i liked him ALOT! and his friend told him wat i said. i dont knoe wat to do, ithink i should move on. i broke up wit him cuz we didnt c each other enough but i regret it. he admits he likes me but wont ask me out. i think i should move on? should i or wait? but i realli like him!
* turns out, i just founbd this out, that my friends or so called friend has been tellin him that its not a good idea to ask me out, and that i dont realli like him alot anymore! so wat do i do bout her and how do i tell him wat she is saying isnt true? plz!

Answer 1

Whooooooaaa...slow down, just let things flow...:::::.... you will have alot of more worse thigns in your life than this... If he likes you he will do somethin about it, right?! If you like him, is he worth the wait?! Do what you feel is right...only you can tell yourself what to do in order to be you.... Just dont wait too long on his a**! If hes shy then go for it, he prob wants u to make the first move.
I just read your other question...if you made a mistake and think things can change then make your move sister! Maybe things will work out, maybe they wont, but thats chances we msut take in life. Do whatever makes you happy. Sure we will have plenty of ups and downs. Life is a rollercoaster and its gonna be a bumpy ride so hold on tight! Life is just a big adventure and you learn from every experience you have (including bfs). So just take in what you learn and keep your head up!

Answer 2

Well from the looks of things you won't have time for a boyfriend anyway because the first thing you need are a few extra English classes .. and by the way yahoo Q & A have a spell checker so use it .. now about this X .. well he wasn't shy enough not to have been your boyfriend now was he .. If you like him tell him you do..... peroid... and see what he does then .. who knows after you get your classes done he might take you out ..

Answer 3

It's a shame but people happen to listen to there peers/groups then a individual person. Instead of telling other people about your love, tell him yourself because gossip and rumers can become born. Plus he'll know your true feelings. Then I'd give him a month and if he doesn't want to go out then I'd move on.

Answer 4

wow, this is really wierd! this happened to my best friend also!!!!! She broke up with her boyfriend but then after a little while found out that she still liked him and that it was the biggest mistake of her life to break up with him. She felt that if she didnt do somthing and tell him than she would miss the opertunity. She wrote him a note saying how she still liked him and how she missed him but understood if he didnt like her any more, but guess what?? it worked out, he had still liked her and so he asked her out and they are still going out now. This is a way that worked, write him a note. I obviously cant say that it will positivley work but if he likes you and you still like him then write him a note and tell him. it dosnt make sense to move on if you both like eachother, that just means 2 broken hearts. You should give him the note personaly. dont give it to one of his friends or your friends to give to him, you can even give it to him and walk away. Make sure you are clear in the note that you still like him. I think that all he needs is direct proof from you that yoyu like him.

The second option is to ask him out yourself, many people have been doing this latly. If hes shy and you know he likes you then ask him out. He will say yes if its true that he likes you, so what are you waiting for

For your friend, just talk to her and ak her why she dosnt think that you should go out with him, maybe she is too scared to tell you that she likes him too!...dont be too harsh on her, is she likes him than she will need a friend to lean on if he still likes you

Dont miss this opertunity GO FOR IT!!!! you never no, it may work out for the best!!! if you dont do somthing and just move on you will kick yourself later!!!!!

Answer 5

You need to stay out of the relationships for a while and focus more attention on your school subjects, like English and spelling. Trust me, education is very important! No guy worth having is going to be seen with someone who spells like a 2nd grader.

Answer 6

I've been in this exact situation so I know what you mean. This may sound really hard, but call him up and tell him how you feel. Tell him you made a mistake and it doesn't seem right when he's not in your life. Don't even bring up your bitchy friend unless he does. If he does, than say that he should trust his instincts, not somebody elses.
good luck!

Answer 7

If his friends are working against you, it means youll have to take matters into your own hands. You should call him and work things out. When you call him, let him know how you feel and ask if he'd like to give you two another chance and if he'd like to go out again. In situations like these it's better to be just straight foward with guys.

Answer 8

I would just go up to him and tell him that you are interested in him and how you feel. And as for your so called friend maybe she likes him and wants him for herself. Just ignore her and wait for her to apologize (if she has the courtesy to do so). But I hope all turns out well and good luck! =)

Answer 9

Why don't you just ask him out??? Don't be shy, say what you feel to him, thats the only way you can know he got your message loud and clear.And if he dosn't fel the same, move on. There are plenty of other men out there.... Good luck....

Answer 10

Ooh, sounds like she is trying to take him from you. If you both like each other, then make the first move. If it doesn't work out, then you didn't lose much. Good luck.