2 weeks ago I met a guy through one of my friends... we ended up hitting it off really great and by the end of the night we were making out in my car... then last weekend we spent practically the whole weekend together... Sat. night we ended up hooking up which made me think that he liked me but I knew that he had just broke up with his gf of 4 years and that he was probably on the rebound.. and I was still getting over my ex... we didn't exchange numbers until today but he told me that the day after we hooked up that he asked a girl who I am kind of frineds with out on a date... the thing is is I am starting to like him and I don't know if I should tell him or not... I don't want to make things awkward because it has only been 2 weeks but then again I don't want to take the chance of getting hurt yet again... I'm really confused over the whole situation
2007-03-28 14:17:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u have to go for wat u want. go for hima nd tell him if u like him. i knoe u dont wanna get gurt but u still will if u have feelings for hima nd he goes out with another girlk and ends up likeing her alot when u do too. soo tell himnd maybe both of u can help heal eachtoher. bestz luck
2007-03-28 14:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but guys don't "hook up" with girls because they like the girl. Guys hook up with girls because they want to have sex with the girl and sometimes simply out of convenience. This is especially true if you had only recently met like you two did. If he liked you like you like him, he wouldn't have asked your friend out on a date the day after you two hooked up. He would have asked YOU out on a date.
I wouldn't tell him because it would make you look desperate for love. My suggestion is that you chalk it up to experience and never again give it up so soon after meeting a guy. It's all he'll want you for if he doesn't really get to know you first and vice versa.
2007-03-28 14:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him, but don't expect too much. Sounds like he may be playing the field a bit coming out of a 4 year relationship. Still tell him though, coz it may sway things in your favour. If not, chalk it up to experience. Sounds like you had a couple of days of good fun anyway !!
2007-03-28 14:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Sweetie as everyone already know... I closed mouth won't get fed. In other words, tell him what is on your mind. You never know, he may be feeling the same way you are. Good luck!!
2007-03-28 14:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋