I Have been friends with this guy for 5mths and he went off to the Army last month..he & i confessed our feelings about a week ago and we are dating now. I really care about him as he does in Return.he is in the army in 2 years.im supose to see him for Christmas And he gets out the army in febv.2009..the question i am asking is i really care about him alot but its really hard to handle a realtionship so distance and i worried about if he is gonna get killed.he tells me not to worry etc..but its so hard & he keeps in contact with me everyday.. As i care about him alot & i want to be with him..i dont know if i should continue this realtionship with him or become friends again. What is best to do?
2007-03-28 14:13:14 · 13 answers · asked by Andrea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He Joined the Army before we started dating..
2007-03-28 14:20:34 · update #1
Keep the relationship going don't be scared of what will hapen becaause it will still hapen if you leave him and if he does die it would be with a broken heart. Don't walk out on him because you're scared, only do it if you really don't want to be with him.
2007-03-28 14:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by MiZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it over with your man and share your feelings and concerns. Maybe the two of you together can work something out. Long distance relationships don't always work for everyone. How old are you? My sister was having a relationship with a man over seas in the army and they made it work just fine. They just got married recently. If you really care for him as more than a friend, I suggest you give it a try or you may regret it. Good luck to you both.....
2007-03-28 14:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by mommy to 2 year old triplets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should believe in him and know that he will make it threw the army and come back to you at Feb 2009. So dont worry.....well it isnt bad if you worry because you dont know what is going to happen in the future. But believe in him and encourage him to do well in the army, it will give him courage.
2007-03-28 14:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by AAA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation is a hard one.
-a distant relationship is hard to maintain
-if he truly loves you, then leaving him may "hurt" him
-many men that come back home from a war, end up having a bad relationship anyways. (If I could find you the exact stats, I would have proved that to you), but it all depends.
in the end..think of what's best for the both of you :)
2007-03-28 14:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep him cuz he cares about you alot and he will see u again if u just wait a little longer,and if u cared about him that much than you will wait for him to come home.
2007-03-28 14:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by tutes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is going to be hard. of course it is! but if you love each other, you can make it work!
i would be very proud if my boyfriend was out protecting my country.you should be too!!:-)
although saying that. how old are you?im 21 and i could, but if youre only young once and you should be dating and having fun with other guys while you can!!
do what you thinks best and will make you happy:-)
2007-03-28 14:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by xloux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just maintain ur relationship n wait 4 his return from army then after go full swing about ur love.
2007-03-28 14:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he join before or after u started dating, if before go for it if after, u might want to think about it a little.
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-28 14:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by crazykid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep up the relationship.If he dies mourn for about a year then find someone new!You love him to death so keep your honey!His yours and no onelse's.
2007-03-28 14:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋