before their was a love triangle but now I'm just done, I'm sick and tired of competition, I'm sick of fighting I'm sick of showing off to the girl that I used to love, now today I just didnt have those same feelings for her I realized that she doesnt truly respect me on the most basic level, as a human like she's superior or something I dunno maybe I just have a inferiority complex or something. I just sort of stopped liking the girl it feels sort of weird but I dont have any feelings for her anymore, beyond a friend, if anyone has experianced this or some similar situation what exactly is this feeling?
2007-03-28 14:10:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's the stage of accepting that the competition kept you going but from what I'm getting - that part is over. You are seeing now that it wasn't worth the effort you had to go through. If someone puts you through that, it is disrespectful and the feeling you are going through is that you shouldn't have to compete for love.
Be glad that you do have that feeling. It will be easier to move on now.
2007-03-28 14:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Plexed 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even though my ex-boyfriend wasn't in a love-triangle, he had the same "I see her as just a friend" feelings. He told me why and I agreed. Now, we're the best of friends.
If you are young, like us, you probably weren't ready to handle a girlfriend (or the pther way around), and she's evolved into a sisterly character for you.
If you're older, i say that you just quit liking her.
Besides, what good is dating a girl if she was cheating on you? I'm a girl, and if my boyfriend was cheating on me I would dump him, kill him, and never date him again until he PROOVED that I was his only.
I think it's time that you left her, buddy. =(
2007-03-28 21:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if you watch Grey's Anatomy but this same situation was in one of the Episodes.
If you no longer love her then you're exactly right, there is no point in competing. You need to step back and move on.
2007-03-28 21:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by simply_college 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is a good case of self-esteem. self respect. you've realized that she isn't as great as she thinks she is. she thinks she is the greatest and that she can do whatever she wants with you. now you just dont want to put up with it anymore. good for you
2007-03-28 21:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Bsktbllkd31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, it's called the end... no feelings for her a clear indication of a natural end of the relationship, and time for you to move on!
2007-03-28 21:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you've grown up and what this girl had just doesn't give you the excitement it once did. you have to move on to the next girl and the next till you find the right one!
2007-03-28 21:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by kittybrains 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yup. It's called self-respect. Good for you.
2007-03-28 21:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by e_d_ellis2004 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Reality, I think she was more of a challenge then desire...you quit, if you desired her you wouldn't.
2007-03-28 21:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its okay, thats NORMAL!!!! i had this 2 at one time.....it's the feeling of giving up
2007-03-28 21:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by lovely angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's the end!
2007-03-28 21:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋