My Boyfriend i has been together for a year, i've knowen him for 11 years and have been engaged with him sence december 26 2006. He cheated on me like 8 or 9 months ago with my Best friend. (So i thought she was). Me and my boyfriend and my best friend was at my house drinking and having a good time. It was getting late like 3 in the morning and my boyfrind fingered her. while i fell asleep on him lap. Do u think he is still cheating on me? with another girl? He keeps telling me that he would never do that to me again. He said he is to scared to loose me as his girlfriend.
2007-03-28 14:09:57 · 13 answers · asked by Shelly Brooke 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you don't trust him you should end the relationship. If you marry him your life will be hell. Everyday you will ask yourself the same question " is he cheating on me"? Don't do this to yourself.
2007-03-28 14:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by brazilian33 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should know if he's cheating on you. What is he doing that's making you think he is? Do you still think he could be seeing your friend on the side? If he had respect for you he wouldn't of done what he did no matter how long you've known him you should of just been friends with him because you know him long enough to know the person that he is. you out of all people should know better. You know if he is or not, now would you want to marry a guy who cheated on you right in front of you and with your best friend? What can be the worst thing he could do to you ones you marry him? He already did. And about your friend how did you find out he did what he did to her? If all you were drinking were you really on his laps? or was your friend sleeping as well because if you dont have the story straight she could be the victim here.
Or maybe she was sleeping when he fondled her. You know what you want and you know what your getting yourself into.
good luck.
2007-03-28 21:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by amores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i try not be one sided on anysituation but... what a ******* piece of ****... you should have slapped him and walked out.. no questions ask.. he cheated on you that many times.. ok you know when you say sorry that means it will never happen again.. but if it does happen again then you didnt mean the sorry you said.. so he was never sorry the first time he isnt sorry now.. he just want to get as much booty as he can.. what a loser.. you can do so much better then that.. and yes he is totaly cheating on you.. maybe if he did it only one time.. that would make him realize that man why did i do that that was stupid i love her i shouldnt have.. bt 9 times.. he doesnt care about you at all... leave him and find someone that can keep his hands to himself.. if not you.. sorry you met a jerk.. if you need help approching a new guy.. let me know..
2007-03-28 21:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by Dr.Icebreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya right .. you believe that ? Once a cheater always a cheater and I am a male .. couple quick things though .. first off that thing above where you typed in your question ... ya the one that says check spelling ... its there for a reason .. its dar fur ppls whats donts nose how to spel
Find a new guy cause one that would do that while your asleep is no good .. notta ....
2007-03-28 21:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by myopinionforwhatitsworth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in a very similar situation as this and lost my best friend to! I cant tell you if he is or isnot but my personal experince tells me to always fallow my gut feeling not my heart and i did this when this happened to me and he was cheating on me it felt horriable and we are no longer together, we recently spoke again and he told me he regrets what he had done everyday sence then but im glad i followed my gut feeling, Good Luck hun and do what feels right for you
2007-03-28 21:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya girl I wouldnt trust this guy 4 nothing, I wouldnt even be with himanymore imagine, he did that sh*t with u right there asleep on his lap thats sum fu*ked up stuff and with ur so called bestfriend, hope u dont talk to her anymore, so Im just saying if he did that with u asleep right there imagine what he does when ur not around :( and so he says he wouldnt do that anymore, mmmmm I wouldnt belive him , good luck
2007-03-28 21:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 11 years is a kinda of boring and he wants something fresh.
2007-03-28 21:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Cakebread 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you're safe with him...YEAH, RIGHT! If you fell for that one you're gonna get played "til death do you part"....get my drift?
2007-03-28 21:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you still with this jerk? he will only keep doing it because he got away with it already
2007-03-28 21:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes a sicko
2007-03-28 21:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋