would you let ur hubby?

Question

Would u let ur hubby take ur child for the weekend with his new girlfriend, after he left his family four times, over a different chic, thats just random, he beat me while his gf was right with us, my daughter doesnt want to see this new chic, she told her daddy that she would see him, but not her, why cant he respect his daughters wishes? i have talked to him about this, and he wants our daughter to meet his new girl, by the way, i moved out, after catchin the two in our bed last week. what do u think of this?

Answer 1

Hello! Sweet H.
Why don't you suggest that he pick your daughter up and take her to Mac Donalds for lunch.
Spend a few hours of quality time with her for now.
Later on if he settles with a permanent partner and the child is comfortable in meeting her fine.
Try not to let your differences rub off on the little one.
Children need to know that mummy and daddy still love and want what is best for me.
If a child sees the both of you being respectful toward each other it will be a comfort to her.
If she is stressing out about the situation I would say keep her in her routine at home,it is what is best for the child at the present time..
Take care!

Answer 2

I don't think that you should let your daughter go if she doesn't want to meet his new chic. If he beats on you I say that he should be put in jail. If I was in your place I would not let her go if he beats on you what makes you think he won't hit her or yell at her because of his chic it happen you know. Don't let her go and if he heats you again call the police and put him in jail and don't feel sorry for him who know what he may do the next time.

Answer 3

I think you have more drama in your life than anyone should have to tolerate.
You're still married? Your husband (not ex...) wants your child to meet his new girlfriend?
How about -- say no. Hell no, as a matter of fact.
Why would you expect him to respect your daughters wishes? He has not shown either of you any respect in any of these choices.
You're still that parent. Take charge of the one thing you might still be able to control, and don't allow it.

Answer 4

Your daughter does not need to introduced to every girl this man wants to be involved with. If you think about it, its disturbing her mentally, as she, you daughter explained, she doesn't want to meet her dad's new girl friend. Have your husband's family explain this to him, it seems safer since he tends to beat you.

Answer 5

OMG, Run away girl!

I agree with the first poster - I would have pressed charges or at least made a police report.

The more charges and police reports you file, the less likely he is to be able to win custody of your girl.

Now - who do you want giving your girl advice on how she should grow up and behave and what she should accept ... yourself or him? (or him + the skank he's with)

Answer 6

i for my area does no longer be phased by who my boyfriend's with as I believe him, yet i imagine in case you weren't invited because you won't be able to take care of your drink, interior the destiny attempt to stay sociable and somewhat sober at the same time as ingesting as then this does no longer happen to you back interior the destiny :D

Answer 7

I'm getting that you are concerned about the safety and welfare of your daughter.

Unless he can assure you that she'll be ok, then no, I wouldn't let him.

And talk to a lawyer tomorrow morning.

Answer 8

your hubby cheats and you move out/
whats wrong wit you girl mom gets the houses these days you have the baby so what tf

Answer 9

I think him and his g/f should end up like Earl .. in the lake.

Answer 10

I didn't want to bring this up, but, I can see right down yer.......