alright... so earlier my sis was on the computer for AT LEAST an hour and i told her i wanted to get on and she complained, but then i said i'd give her ten min. so when i came back i saw her type a message to the friend she was chatting with and it said "i g2g, my sis wants to get on" and the message her friend wrote back said "OMG you sister is so annoying she always wants to get online when we are talking I HATE HER!!!" and i don't even know this girl i don't kno what she looks like or ne thing! all i know about her is that my sister chats with her online ALL the time. and i think what she said was REALLLY rude idk what her parents have been teaching her but i think NO ONE should say this about anyone especially if they don't know them no matter how much they are gettin on your nerves.
and also, my sis spends waaaaay to much time on the computer its the first thing she does when she gets home from school.
i'm gonna add details in a minute i'm running out of letters so yeah...
2007-03-28 14:08:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she spends way to much time on the computer. like when we are walking in the door after school she says "i call the computer". and if i just get on anyway she starts freaking out and starts crying! i think shes a little old for that shes going to be 12 soon!! and when shes on the computer shes on for an hour at a time its crazy!!!
whats her problem?
how can this be fixed?
don't be mean please
thanks
2007-03-28 14:12:25 · update #1
Oh, get a life!!
2007-03-28 14:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
This is not acceptable. How old are these kids though? Maybe you should just talk to your sister about it. Or maybe you guys should have a certain time like your sis gets the computer from 4-5:30 and u 5:30-7. Something like that.
2007-03-28 21:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by queenb 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't control what others do but what you can control is how you react to things. In this situation you have every right to be upset so you can tell your sister how you feel and leave it at that. As for her being on the computer too much you can also tell her that but I think she will have to realize that for herself. I don't think you should put to much stock in what a name on the other end of a computer says about you. Remember our natural tendency is to get upset but realize this - They dont know you, so who really cares? Right? They are probably some poor pathetic soul on the other end of a computer that doesn't have any real friends in the real world.
2007-03-28 21:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Agree on a schedule for using the computer. Alternate days or times or both. Set a timer and stick to the schedule.
Don't read over your sister's shoulder. THAT is rude.
If you suspect she is in over her head with a stranger online, tell your parents.
2007-03-28 21:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think that its fair to you that your sister might be telling her friends that you always want the computer, and that she hates you. me and my brother share a computer, and we made specific times of day, that each person gets the computer, and that helps (but we still fight sometimes) but yes, i agree with you that this was totally unacceptable. that was very rude of her, and you should talk to your sister about maybe letting her have some time in the afternoon for the computer, and then you can use it in the evening!
2007-03-28 21:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by island.girl24 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree that it's not fair, but life isn't fair unfortunately. Especially life on the internet, since everybody can be anonymous while they are being obnoxious. Truely sorry, all I can say is try not to be bothered by what people on the internet say about you; it really doesn't mean much.
2007-03-28 21:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel S 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She's like me,loves the comp!Why not save up money and start calling "I call the comp!!" and if she starts doing that then say "You'r so immature!And you're too old for that..." not in a mean way just calm way.And tell her "You're friend is sooo stupid and mean!Delete her anyways,she doesn't even know me so tell her to back off please!"
2007-03-28 21:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was rude, but don't take it to heart. I get angry at my mom when I'm forced off during a conversation, but it doesn't last long. Internet anger= lowest form of anger. Bet she's younger than you? It's a tween/teen thing.
2007-03-28 21:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by Knee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should discuss this with your mother. Your sister's friend did say something rude. But maybe your sister should pick other friends, too. Your mother should know about this.
2007-03-28 21:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think that she ment for u 2 see but that is rude
u should tell ur sister what u think and see if u can make a time limit on ur computer unless u really need it for school or something important
2007-03-28 21:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if they are teenagers that's how teen's act. If she is spending way to much time on the comp talk to your parents and work out a schedule for comp usage.
2007-03-28 21:13:22 · answer #11 · answered by dirtbikechiky 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋