I am truly and deeply in love with boy who I think dosen't love me back. I have loved him for years and years. But I never really told him because I know he dosen't and why the shame and I know him, then he'll start feeling uncomfortable and of course, me even more. He says he has a crush on a girl in another classroom, but I don't think so, when he's with her he looks forced. I don't know what to do, please don't tell me 'forget him, try doing some other stuff instead of thinking about him'.
I need useful advice, please someone help me! life's not worth living without him. And even if someday he does get to like me, I know I'm not worthy enough for his true full love.
What can I do?.
oxox.
This puzzles me..
2007-03-28 14:06:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get into rebound relationship
2007-03-28 14:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Big Daddy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't love you back, then it's more of an infatuation. Love goes both ways, a one sided love is like falling in love with a picture.
You don't say how old you or the boy are, I'm guessing you're still in school?
I know that this feels very real to you, or you wouldn't be writing this at all. The worst thing that can happen if you tell him, is that he will not like it; not like he's gonna hit you!
You can ask a friend to ask how he feels about you, a good friend wouldn't mind, and might enjoy spying for you too.
Maybe he's just too shy to tell you he really does like you, and he must like you as a friend, or else you wouldn't know how he feels about this other girl.
Or you can ask him if he's ever felt like more than friends with you, just say it casually, as if you're joking around. This way, if he says "heck no", you can say you were just joking with him. Nobody will be hurt.
2007-03-28 21:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by tottpaula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately - You do have to forget him - and find someone else you like. That's the answer... I don't know what else you're looking for but if you're not going to tell him you like him (which probably means you're very young - possibly too young to date - under 16) then there's no reason to worry about him.
2007-03-28 21:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that you are a wonderful and a beautiful lady and if he doesn't see that in you, he's not for you. love is about patience, you just have to wait for that someone who will love you for you. there's a lot of guys out there and you don't have to settle for a guy who doesn't love you back. and i know you don't want him to love you just because he feels sorry for you right? think about it. only you can make the choice. :)
2007-03-28 21:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by smileforme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay sweetie. Can you define love? If you are asking people on Yahoo what you should do, you're not in love. Yes you would be upset without him but you wouldn't be this stressed out would you. If you can define love, you can define your lover.
2007-03-28 21:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of him spraying diarrhea all over the porcelain
2007-03-28 21:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by one_man_gang2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life sucks dude one minute you think your on top of the world next minute you getting sh it on somhow deal with it
2007-03-28 21:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by tends its mines 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just date someone else then maybe he'll notice you.
2007-03-28 21:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by JMP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋