We have feelings for one another. The fact that I am a shy girl and he is the opposite. He said that he likes my shyness and is understanding. Lately, he is acting a bit weird seems like insistingly wanna kiss me ... I like him but I just can't cope with that so called emotional force. Does he act in a wrong or right way? Is he making me conquer my shyness or making me escape his love?
2007-03-28 13:58:01 · 8 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do not say how long you have known him. That is a big question.
2007-03-28 14:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lost in Erehwon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello! Sara007.
Respect and rapor are major parts to love.
You say that he likes your shyness and he is understanding.
Then he will understand when you tell him you are not comfortable with his behaviour.
You ask is he helping you to conquer your shyness?
It appears that you need to escape his control .
There are many men who have integrity who will treat you as an equal not a master.
take care!
2007-03-28 21:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may say he likes your shyness but he is bullying you. Don't let him do that. Stop seeing him now and find some boyfriend that will respect you and let you move along in the relationship at your own pace. This is not the guy for you.
2007-03-28 21:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't that he is a weird lover, he is just in a different place than you. He wants to have a physical relationship with you, and you don't. He shouldn't try to push you to do anything. If it makes you uncomfortable, tell him to stop. Tell him you aren't ready, and you need him to respect that. I am curious why kissing makes you so uncomfortable. I don't think it is about about being "shy". But, irregardless of why, if he tries to kiss you, that's normal. If he wants to kiss you, that's normal. If he forces it, that's not.
2007-03-28 21:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by sarlha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if what he does makes you feel uncomfortable, then tell him so...openness and honesty in a relationship and being able to accept little criticisms is part of a good relationship...Little criticisms....nothing major...lol
2007-03-28 21:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and voice your concern, It might not be like it seems. You won't know until you ask him. You know him better than I.....
2007-03-28 21:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by larua_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that it is weird ,then it is!...dont go by what others think!
2007-03-28 21:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by ticktockgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you "lovers", YET ?
2007-03-28 21:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋