I'm 16, and my girlfriend and I love each other so much ... She really wants to have sex with me and asked me if I want to have sex with her or not ... I told her I want to but I'm not ready for it yet ... Did I do the right thing? What should I do?
2007-03-28 13:53:04 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's the right thing but your at the stage of where you should just make out and casually cuddle in the bed but not the full package. You did the right thing at your age. This is like a recap of Desperate Housewives.=)
2007-03-28 13:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by Love Me Tender* 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did the right thing. Take your time, don't rush anything. You are still so young and you don't need sex to complicate things. If you are not ready for any responsibilities that can come out of sexual intercourse, such as a baby, then you are not ready for sex. If she loves you as much as you say, then she will understand and wait until you are ready.
I think you made a great desicion. Good Luck!
2007-03-28 13:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by mommy to 2 year old triplets 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! It is so refreshing to hear a man speak from his heart, actually listening to his conscience and not his penis! (no offense guys) If it doesn't feel right yet, then wait. What's the hurry? Don't do anything you may regret later on. If she loves you (and you should really only have sex with someone you're in love with) then she will respect you and wait until you're both ready.
P.S. Thank you for giving me hope that there are still decent men out there!
2007-03-28 13:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by paddington_ck 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing my friend once your ready to do it do it ok if your not ready just wait until the right moment when you are. Tell her you do want to have sex with her but your just not ready yet
2007-03-28 13:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by weezy f. baby Young money 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? Do you feel like this is a lasting relationship? Do you really want to engage in something that you feel you aren't ready for? You need to ask yourself these questions. I'm 17, and my boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years, and we still haven't had sex. He hasn't pressured me, though we've talked about it openly and I just don't feel right about it, and he's understanding. I think you need to have an open conversation with your girlfriend, tell her how you feel and your concerns, and ask her to wait until you feel comfortable.
2007-03-28 14:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes you did the right thing you wasn't ready yet and your probably waiting for the special moment if your girlfriend can understand that, that means she cares alot about to wait cause sex is very.... well let just say its nice and you would like to have sex with a person that cares alot about you or it would not be special.
2007-03-28 13:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by Nirra 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, u gave the right answer. U dont do it just becuz she wantz to. You do it when u feel ready. If she cant handle that or accept that then she doesnt really love you. If you want to u can explain to her why ur not ready to make her understand where you are comming from.
2007-03-28 13:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by Nessa 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yeah. thats fine, a guy has the right to say hes not ready. There are consequences of having sex and u know about them and im sure u dont wanna hear about them, they will also effect u a guy... PLUS u might not be with her forever and lots of grls would prefer to be in a serious relationship with a virgin.
2007-03-28 13:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only have sex when you are ready and willing. You totally did the right thing. And your girlfriend should respect that.
2007-03-28 13:56:46 · answer #9 · answered by e_d_ellis2004 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did the right thing! I dont think she really loves you if she wants to have sex before marriage.
The best way to show your love for someone is to wait until marriage to have sex!
2007-03-29 10:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋