I am dating a guy who is about to relocate to another country, we have been having a difficult communicating since we are both busy all the time and currently live 5 hours apart. Hardly see each other, but I try to make time to talk to him at least 2x a week, but I get the feeling if I dont call , he will not call me. I tried to break up with him but he says he is not sure what he wants.
2007-03-28 13:52:00 · 9 answers · asked by MiaPocca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Response to Sue f:
Actually all these happened. I dated this guy (relocating) since we were both in grad school, then we broke up , I then dated the "player dude" and then got back with this guy again.!!
I know just going around in circles
2007-03-28 14:14:29 · update #1
Well seems like its a boring topic eh..very few responses
2007-03-29 13:44:12 · update #2
What does your heart tell you to do , ask your self .And you ll know the answer:.
2007-04-05 01:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Hope Summer 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get realistic, dear:
1. He is not sure what he wants. Well, in order to have a relationship you gotta be goddamn sure about it.
2. 5 hours apart already and now relocating to another country! How do you think you will ever make this working at all? Are you not concerned you are investing your time in a relationship project with no future?
3. If you don't call him, he never calls you - if he is that disinterested, what makes you think he is ready to make a commitment?
My advice:
End it and your time is to precious to waste it on speculative relationships. You will do better that this.
2007-04-05 01:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by Eugene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You "tried" to break up with him? Honey, if you wanted to break up with him, you would do it and be done with it. It sure sounds like the two of you are already finished, but you just haven't actually finished it. Why are you hanging on? You don't see each other, you don't communicate. What kind of relationship is that? What, you get together once in awhile, have sex, and then go your seperate ways and call it a relationship? I would bet my bottom dollar, that is exactly what he is doing. Don't waste your time. Find someone who you can have a real relationship with.
2007-03-28 13:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by sarlha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be concerned about what you want...you know what's right for you. Is a long(out of the country-really long) distance relationship what you want? I've never had a long distance relationship, but, I've been told it's a hard thing to do. Good luck!
2007-03-28 14:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this mean that you were dating someone else besides the one who broke up with you in your previous question? The one where you wanted to know if you were played?
Wow, you really have an admirable social life. (I am being facetious of course)
For all we know, this is all made up in order to get some sort of attention from a bunch of total strangers.
2007-03-28 14:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should break up with him and tell him that you don't feel anything special no more for him and that you will find a person who deserves you better than him and that if he wants he could be your friend only friend not boyfriend.
2007-04-05 13:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by FireStone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say dump him girl cause he's playing with your emotions and he doesnt know what he wants so another man will and he will know that he wants you
2007-04-05 12:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by jasminwalker23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More fish in the sea.
2007-03-28 14:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by JMP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2007-04-05 07:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋