Well Im lost a man I fell in love with 6yrs ago that was deployed in iraq, he came back home to live and he says he has been looking for me through my sister asking for my number but she wouldnt give it to him because she wanted him well they slept together and the i ran across his email and found him he was excited, and so was i but he told me he slept with my sis and it hurt he said he wasnt trying to hurt me, and my sis knew i cared for him , he now wants me in his life, what do i do?
2007-03-28 13:20:50 · 10 answers · asked by constance b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should give this a pass. The man has slept with your sister. Don't know about you, but I think this will hinder your relationship with your sister and the man. So I think you should forget about the whole thing and just move one with your life. There are many men out there waiting to know you honey.
2007-03-28 13:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the man has been in Iraq for a while i am sure it didn't take much for him to give in to her,but for the sister I would really deal with her,and then try to work it out with him.
2007-03-28 20:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't have a sister, but it must suck to compete with one for a guy. you need to decide if he's worth it- this might ruin your relationship with your sister, but then again, it might not. it depends what's important to you. Your sister will always be there, but guys will come and go. If you think she'll still feel the same toward you after you go out with a guy she slept with, then go for it. Though personally, i wouldn't go out with him after he slept with my sister- if he loved you, i don't think he would have done that. but hey, it's your call. good luck!
2007-03-28 20:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Fiona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!!! That is ridiculous. It's one thing to sleep with other women when you're not together, but your sister is a different story. If he cared about you he would not have done that...either would your sister for that matter.
2007-03-28 20:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by dil7827 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is WRONG for that, she should know better, dang thats messed up. I don't know though, if you can over look that then go for it, just watch out for your sister though, she just might try it again.
2007-03-28 20:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lies. If he was sincerely looking for you he sure as hell would not have slept with your sister.
2007-03-28 20:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes him and your sister are at fault,leave well alone,you have survived for six years.
2007-03-28 20:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by RAINBOW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurlo i would be sooooo mad....but if he says that he wants you....how do u feel about it.....just keep on asking yourself what you wanna do....but my suggestion is that i would leave him because he slept wid mah sister.....just to let you know that.....even though he hurt you once though.......you will always be hurt again right?....trust me.....especially your sister....well...see ya
2007-03-28 20:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be mad at him. The fault lies with your sister.
2007-03-28 20:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jack Wilson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him fast....don't know what say about your sis,,sorry
2007-03-28 20:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋