well theres this girl in my class room iv known her for about half a year she use to be in a bad relation ship and now she isent... but now i relize i really like her but the thing is her friends really dont like me and i dont know if she would say yes, i mean wut if she says no he friends would never let me live it donw.... Also dont just leave 2 word answers
2007-03-28 13:19:59 · 10 answers · asked by Michael W. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Michael, It really depends how much you like this girl, and how mature you are. If you are determined to win this girl over, then you have to be willing to subject yourself to her friends, and the possibility of rejection from her. Maybe her friends do not really know you, and if you can let them get to know you better , they might just change their opinions of you. If you are getting any positive signals from this girl you like, then you need to decide if you want to pursue this relationship, considering all possibilities. If you decide , to move forward, then it is great, and shows you are mature, and will not let others opinions rule your life. Be certain that you can and are willing to deal with the consequences. Good Luck, girls like men that can think for themselves.
2007-04-05 05:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I hate to tell you this, but in this situation you should try and find someone else. You are in school and in school people are all about peer pressure. She will most likely say no because her friends don't like you. It's a sad truth but kids in school date many times someone with the same popularity status, or approval by friends rather than someone that is truly interesting to them.
Plus if she just got out of a relationship you will only be a rebound.
2007-04-04 23:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Rumin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being ready to ask a girl out also means being ready to accept rejection.
All part of becoming a man.
So what if she says no and her friends rag on you. You will get over it.
If she is really that shallow, do you really want her?
Just be a gentleman, ask politely, and walk away graciously if you are declined.
2007-04-05 11:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if her friends can influence her to make a decision out of her best interest then they need to be dating her, otherwise tell them to step to the side! As for you and your feeling toward this lady, it sounds like your out to make yourself not look like a fool, but when feelings are involved someone is going to. Let it be you! Show her that her friends can't possibly know what's good for her in a relationship and that she should allow you to prove it to her.
2007-04-05 11:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by mahoganay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her only her get to kno her.. and show you show you relly are because it sounds to me that her other friends are judging you.. after she gets to kno the real you .. go for it im pretty sure if you treat her right she'll say yes
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-04-05 07:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by iiSABEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry just speak ua mind to ur lady
2007-04-05 13:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your never know if u don,t try jus go 4it.U might end up being surprised by her answer,good luck 2u.
2007-04-05 11:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel u wanna join the others and have a share in the pie.
Dont say u love her and fool yourself !!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-05 07:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by rai sahab 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her privately and since she stopped bothering u i think she likes u
2007-04-05 12:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just ask her unless you are scared of rejection
2007-04-05 13:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋