About 5 months ago my friend finally got a gf albeit a shortlived coz after 2 days she broke up with him. Obviously my friend was devastated but through this me and her remained friends and gradually we started to have feelings for eachother, we tried to spare my friend but day by day we got closer. Some days she would tell me about one of her friends who gets on the same bus as her kept trying to invite her around his house and each time she refused. One day after waiting on msn for her to come online she finally came online and told me she had been around that guys house and she explained what had happened in detail. The next day i couldn't bare to face her so i avoided her all day. Eventually she got together with this guy. what hurts the most is that she lied to me.
I now have a new gf and i rele like her but i just cant forget and it still hurts especially because i see her nearly every day. I feel so guilty becasue of my gf and i dont know what to do!
2007-03-28 13:18:06 · 7 answers · asked by seraphimon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to put the past in the past I am sure it hurt what this other girl did but you have to stop thinking about it and move on. Maybe what you need to do is talk to your girlfriend maybe she can help you to get over it. If not your girlfriend maybe another trusted friend. But I advise you do what you have to to forget then and only then will the hurt stop
2007-03-28 13:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sucks...but the way I look at every break-up I've been through is that they messed up the best thing they're ever gonna have. It may not be the best advice but its just what i do.
also, don't sacrafice what you have with your new gf, because your hung up on the past. its not fair to either of you.
2007-03-28 20:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by mnchick2695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will always hurt. It happened to me too. Get used to it.
2007-03-28 20:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by Josh R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move onto doing things with your life ,let it all go,don't dwell,be happy,you are young.
2007-03-28 20:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by RAINBOW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've just answer your question in you last paragraph you said. "it still hurts especially because i see her nearly every day. "
2007-03-28 20:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by Filizter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it some time and soon you will forget her.
2007-03-28 20:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think about it too much, just wait for a while and she will be forgotten...
2007-03-28 20:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by Russian Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋