SO... i use to like this guy two years ago... rumor had it he liked me back and had his friend ask me out for him...i declined... now two years later we talk and flirt just like we did when we first started talking but he now has a girlfriend... does he still have feelings for me or what? Heres a list of some of the things he has done recently: massaged my shoulders, jokes around with me, comes and talks to me, works out with me at the gym, pretend fighting and so on...so what do you think and what should I do?
2007-03-28 13:15:47 · 21 answers · asked by Beeskneez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also will say inappropriate stuff to me
2007-03-28 13:16:15 · update #1
The thing is...is that I dont know if he likes me still or just considers me a friend because he has a girlfriend. And if he likes me what should I do
2007-03-28 13:29:57 · update #2
he has a girlfriend, girl. You can just be friends with him, but remember this: if you were his girlfriend, would you be mad at him for doing these things with another girl???
2007-03-28 13:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kim F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can just be friends but what do you want and what does he want really. All male female relationships are enriched by sexual tension. There is a lot of truth, however, in the "When Harry Met Sally" comments of Billy Crystal saying such friendships are impossible.
2007-03-28 13:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jack Wilson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youve already gone out with them it is really hard. Me and my ex gf are best friends now, but secretly I am jealous that were still not together. We still date and stuff, but she dates other people and I just wish we were closer like we used to be. I dont know maybe I'm just selfish.
2007-03-28 13:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Josh R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they can but it is more than likely tht he covered those feelings cause you rejected him. But it is possible if you still like him that you can still date him if you like him that way. I feel that he may like you like a sister or a good freind. But i dont know you or him so i cant say. It is hard to answer properly but i would say you can just be good freinds and never cross the line of freindship.
Nick
2007-03-28 13:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my experience, I would ask him, then tell him how you feel about him. If you two have feelings for each other then you should express them before it's too late. If he doesn't then you should know that too, maybe you wont feel so weird around him like I did. Like my papaw once told me, "You never know unill you ask", and sometime not knowing is harder than not knowing.
2007-03-28 13:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Andie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a flirt. he is clearly flirting with you and doing boyfriendy stuff. So if he likes you and wants to be with you then he should let you know and break up with his girlfriend. if he doesn't do that then leave him alone. its either he is into you or his girlfriend. not both. Don't let anybody string you along.
2007-03-28 13:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sandra F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can, but usually one person develops stronger feelings and the friendship ends.
2007-03-28 13:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not gonna like this answer. he likes you, but he's an a$$hole. he shouldn't be doing that stuff with you and then going back to his girl. basically he's using you, getting hot and getting you hot too and then going and getting off with his girl. sorry, that's just how i feel about it.
2007-03-28 13:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by Gordo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys and Gals can be friends, but sometimes it will turn into something more then friendship.
2007-03-28 13:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ne&Tu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course they can, you cannot have chemistry with evry single man/ woman you meet, that is wwhy finding someone is half the challenge in life
2007-03-28 13:19:39 · answer #10 · answered by melinamisr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋