I know i like my best friend, and my brother say she might like me back, cause he see her always flirting with me. i told her how i felt two years ago, she was shock but she understand it.(we are still friends).
And now i think she might like me back.
I ignor my feelings, cause am afried that our friendship will break. i told myself to do ask if she likes me back but i dont want to. what should i do!?
2007-03-28 13:12:37 · 20 answers · asked by What? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see the thing is her co worker flirts with her, but she said she didnt like it( she told me this.) and she told me that she bump into her ex boyfriend and he ask her out too, she said "no". i was jealuos and surpized that she didnt say yes to neirther. is she showing me a hint? so i send her a letter telling her if she remember the talk i had with her two years ago that i like her. she didnt resond but she's been showing me alot of body lang. of liking me. Leaning on me, touching my hand or smiling alot. i dont know how to flirt back but i'm not good at it. when i try by playing around she laughs. but i dont know if she thinks its just playing.
2007-03-28 14:30:51 · update #1
well, you cannot ignored your feelings, the girl seems to hint u about her feeling, either it's for real or not, i think u should ask her again. maybe an invitation to go for a romantic dinner for both of u ,then u purposed her as your girlfriend , if she really love u, she will tell u. it is better than hiding your feeling and feel regret later on. the opportunity comes once, and never let the chance goes...best of luck.
2007-03-28 16:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by ~~simply me~~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so here's the thing... i was in a similar situation as you. I had the bigggessstttttttttttt crush on a close friend, and i did the same thing, i ignored my feeling b/c i didnt want it to ruin the friendship. So in the end, he has the same feelings as me, and he ended up making the first move to ask me out, however if he didnt, i would never have made the move and he never would have found out... he's also my boyfriend now of 5 years, and i coudnt be happier. all im saying is... you like the girl... obviously you guys have something in common already if you guys are so close... generally if a guy and a girl are really close, then they have some feelings for one another... but just think of it as... if you dont say anything... whats gonna happen????????... nothing.... if thats the way you want it then go for it... if you really feel it wouldnt be right to tell her, and it would really ruin the friendship then obivously it isnt meant to happen, however is she respects you for who you really are and how you really feel then no matter how she feels about you, she should respect your feelings, and it shouldnt matter whether she feels the same way or not. if you do nothing, then you'll never know how she truly feels.. if you do something then you wont have to wait anymore... you'll know the answer.
2007-03-28 20:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation a while back man, but nuthin ever happened cause she moved about 7 years ago. Maybe you shoukd tell her just in case that something could go just the way u want it to, on the other hand if she realy liked you she wouldn't let this get in the way of yall's friendship.
2007-03-28 20:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by jmohr08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only think you can do is come out and ask her if she would like to be more than friends. All she can say is yes or no. At least from there you'll know where you stand. Plus she is a good friend, right? She'll still be there for you if she doesn't like you as more than a friend.
2007-03-28 20:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Nina A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should flirt back, after a bit of time with that, tell her your feelings. However some girls in a friendship do flirt as a way of playing. If you flirt back and she get a bit nervous and flirts in return, you know she likes you for sure!
2007-03-28 20:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by Ne&Tu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T get that kind of relationship with her. Think about it. If you go out, have a fun time but the break up you're left with no girlfriend OR friend. You just need to stay friends. Becoming more than that will just F everything up
2007-03-28 20:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy*Black*Chick 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont worry just tell her if u guys r best friends or even just friends with someone they can like u if u tell her ur friendship wont end trust me on this i know this will work cuz this just happend to me lat month but now if u tell her ur frienship will be stronger and maybe she like(might)like u back
2007-03-28 20:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by Bryant T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her. Because if u dont u might end up regretting how u didnt tell her. And if she doesnt like you the same way, what doesnt kill you only makes you stronger. "Life's a dance you learn as you go."
2007-03-28 20:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship with your friend probably wont break just if you tell her that you like her. Besides you'll never know if she likes you as just a friend or more until you let her know how you feel.
2007-03-28 20:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell her.
cause once she knows how u things wont b like omg
but if u tell her she might think wow he is brave enough to tell em something so personal
i mean i kno u already told her but telling her again will make u really cool
so do wat ur heart wants u 2 do
follow u rheart and if she rejects u
ur probably better without her than
cause it means u 2 werent menat 2 b
2007-03-28 20:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by zeretard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋