ok theres this guy, and i really, really, really like him.before he knew that i liked him, he would stare at me all the time and be wherever i was. then he found out i liked him. after that, he didnt pay any attention to me at all. so then i slowly forgot about him, i didnt look at him, pay him any mind, nothing. then he starts staring at me again!and all his friends look at me!he even smiled at me yesterday!so i got so excited and i started to pay more attention to him, figuring he wanted my attention. omg now hes acting like im not around, and paying no attention to me whatsoever. everytime i give him the attention he clearly wants, he backs away. why is he doing this???its driving me crazy!!!is there something im doing wrong?is he intersted or not?
please help as soon as possible. im really not enjoying the game hes trying to play.
2007-03-28 13:01:40 · 11 answers · asked by Sabby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all this seems like a problem that very young people would have but I dont want to trivialize you or hurt your feelings.
This guy is immature. There are so many things that could be at work here. Some of these I am guilty of myself:
1. He thinks you like him and he thinks he so hott that he can entice you with his stares. He wants you to aproach him-to feed his ego, but not necessarily go out with you.
2. He may be too immature and is allowing his buddies comments to make him act funny towards you. He likes you but his buddies are/will tease him about it.
3. He is unsure of himself and shy
4. Maybe at the time he stopped staring he had his eye on someone else and is just checking out the scenary. We are very visual creatures. We like beautiful women. We also like variety.
5. I could go on and on, but here is my response:
The biggest problem with most relationships is that people dont come out and be honest. Go ahead and approach him. Be honest without belittling yourself or intimidating him. Someone said his ego drives him. This is important to remember. I wish you luck.
2007-03-28 13:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not be staring at you imparticularly but if he is then maybe he's just doing it to see how you feel? Maybe he likes the fact that you give him attention every once in a while but feels that if you caught on you might assume that he likes you. He's just being immature and you just need to either forget about him completely or go up to him and confront him. If he's such a big man then he would be able to answer your question about why he's starring at you. If he answers something stupid then don't drown in your sorrows. He's just playing hard to get. He either wants you are he doesn't, just try some of your mild flirting skills and see what happens.
2007-03-28 13:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes got mixed emotions you should just let him make the moves he might feel more comfortable that way. just act as if you don't like him and he might make the moves you want guys are complicated especially wen they like a girl. they don't know if they are doing the right thing just play along with it and see what happens all the best of luck
Charmer ☺☻
2007-03-28 13:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a guy game.... you want him.... confront him!!! Face to face. time to stop the games. Men want a woman they can respect. If he can get you to chase him he will, but if you confront him that means he has to make decision. Front him up and ask him if he likes you and would like to go out. Guys are shy by nature, it takes along time to get up the nerve to talk to ladies, dont be surprised if he passes out on you....Trust me his friends are coaching him, just like your friends are coaching you. Be the bold one, let him know up front you dont want games and you like him but you will be respected..... Be nice, dont belittle him or you will chase him away for ever. His ego runs him, play on that.
good luck
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2007-03-28 13:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by drtoolman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is playing games with you and he doesn't like you. Get rid of him he is trying to mess up your mind. Get rid of the guy or tell him right to his face that you don't like his games and if he don't stop tell him he's barking up the wrong tree. He should get the message. Stand up for your own rights.
2007-03-28 13:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would u want someone so silly. Find a person that has some balls and leave him alone.
2007-03-28 13:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, guys like what they cant have if he knows you like him he wont like you as much. or he might just be messing with you i would just confront him and say what is going on???
2007-03-28 13:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by Michael W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one you need to permanantly forget about and find someone who actually likes you.
2007-03-28 13:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETY A BOY OR MAN THAT PLAY GAMES IS NOT A MAN SINCE HE CAN'T CHOOSE IF HE LIKE YOU OR NOT. MY ADVICE MOVE ON..FIND SOME ONE WHO KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS.
2007-03-28 13:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is dont get sucked into his games ---- ignore him and keep ignoring him --- if he is serious he will change the rules if not he will take the hint ---- best wishes
2007-03-28 13:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋