We have only been together for a short while and I have already fallen for her. We talk/write/text/im eachother all the time. but she is hard to read.
2007-03-28 12:58:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's tough to say without knowing her. You could ask her friends, but her girlfriends could give you away because they are bitchy or want to warn her that you are head over heals and know she doesn't feel that way, her guy friends could give you away for any of those reasons or because they want to get in her pants. When you are in love it's hard to tell what the other person is really thinking; maybe she is guarded about everything, maybe she does not feel the way you do, maybe she couldn't be more obvious and you are just so close to the situation you can't see it. You should talk to her about it, ask her how she feels (I am dating a guy who likes to talk about his and my feelings and how they partain to eachother and it is like a breath of freash air). I don't know how long you have been dating, if it's been less then a month you might want to wait. Let her know if she doesn't feel the same it's OK; you love her, not her feelings for you.
The most important thing -- PUT IT IN YOUR OWN WORDS! If this isn't how you really feel, then you need to focus on however you do feel, but if I was in love with someone who may or may not be ready yet this is probably how I would approach it.
2007-03-28 13:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by Cuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know a woman loves you when she is just as concerned for your happiness as she is for her own. She trusts you, is patient with you, and does her best to understand you. She'll want to know all about you, the good and the bad.
Be careful of subjective love though - it is only based on feelings and usually isn't far off from simple infatuation. True love includes objective love, which means being able to make a commitment to that person and treating them with respect by maintaining the fidelity of the relationship.
If she's hard to read, then I'm afraid you really don't know her well enough to truly love her yet. Don't worry though, you both sound as if you're off to a great start and with time and good communication you'll find that real love you are looking for.
Best of luck to you both!
2007-03-28 13:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by HallamFoe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The is hard to read because you love her. A woman respect you and you do most of the loving. Reading a woman it depends on what guide of woman it she. You really do not know her. She would impress your love and you would not be asking us. She would put a smile on your face and make you feel like you are the only one she cares for. No doubt.
2007-03-28 13:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she says I Love You, then she means it. Trust me dude. If she doesn't Love you, but don't want to hurt her feelings, then she's gonna be all,"Um.........sure." When she looks like she is not comfortable inside, (You can tell by the outside, too) than she doesn't love you. If she is excited, or crys, or surprised, she Loves You, Definitely,
I hoped I helped
Good Luck!
2007-03-28 13:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by TempoBronze124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have fallen for her in such a short time does not mean that she has also.
When she has you will know she has beyond a shadow of a doubt.
until then don't get all sloppy with your emotions. this early in the game she may shy away
2007-03-28 13:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by mark_grvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most clear way for you to find out, would be for her to tell you "I love you". She probably likes you...alot....and love spending time with you and talking to you whenever she gets the chance. Dont get antsy about love though. You haven't been together very long, so give it time and eventually she will let you know when its full blown love.
2007-03-28 14:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are doing all of that then she is into you more than you think.Next time you talk or text her.Give her a little cute message like 'U Rock my boat' or something like that.Girls are a lot more easier to read than girls.Trust me because I am 1.
2007-03-28 13:05:24 · answer #7 · answered by jada o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be playing it cool til she hears it from you. Thats what I'd do. Some girls just don't believe in making the first move. Personally, it seems desparate to me and a turn off.
2007-03-28 13:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by cindy h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are complicated species. You'll never know what we want and feel just by looking at us. Enjoy the thrill of finding out wether she loves you or not.
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2007-03-28 13:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by Leilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesnt really sound like love it sounds like a crush,you need to take some time,besides just because anybody could text you and call you,but that doesnt mean they love you,it might be a little one sided,and besides you will never really know.......
and neither will she....
but if she thinks she does she will tell you so
2007-03-28 13:08:02 · answer #10 · answered by farlen323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋