All women, please advise. I am 37 & have been with less than 10 women.? Do women find this appealing or not?

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All women, please advise. I am 37 & have been with less than 10 women.?
I have always had long term relationships since I was 17. I never wanted to be a player because I would rather really get to know a woman intimatley and know every like & dislike she has. To me, sex for the first time with someone is always awkward and it only gets better & better when you really know someone . Anyways, I have recently become single again & since I'm not too old, I thought that I have missed out on my sex life. I have always been hit on by women. All of my girlfriends would always get jealous when we would go out & If I were a dog, i could have cheated 100's of times.

Should I be a player while I still have my looks? Or is the idea of having a faithful guy who want's to please that isn't a man-whore more appealing to all the women out there.

So many of my guy friends have told me that I'm stupid because I didn't hook up with the girl at the party or the waitress or whoever.

Have I been missing out or not?

Signed,
A confused guy in Los Angeles

Answer 1

I would think that 10 would be a lot. I think that you should limit who you are with--if youre talking about sex- to one person that you are married too. Sex is for marriage only.