Hey i am going over to my girlfriends house this week we have been dating for like two weeks now. Last time we met we made out. Now that I am going around hers I was wondering what sort of things i could get up to with her? So basically what do i do next in the relationship,i am 15 she is 17 were both inexperinced. She is also kinda friged i think.
2007-03-28 12:48:25 · 9 answers · asked by ededed e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In a hurry...
YOU'LL find out...
2007-03-28 12:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Puffalator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the most important thing if you want to push things along sexually is to make her feel relaxed. Make sure you are in a relaxed situation like watching a movie (that isnt too dramatic or violent). The best way to do that is to move slowly in your love making with your goal being sex. If she ever says something like I think were moving too fast go back to what you were doing and try again in 5 minutes. Even if shes begging for it move slowly. Start focused on her head and face and then slowly move down to ... well you know where. If she ever gives you a firm NO make sure you stop then. You have to gain experience somehow and she is inexperienced so dont feel nervous about screwing up. Be relaxed as you can (I know its impossible to be completely relaxed when your like that) and try to make sure its as pleasurable for her as possible.
Just make sure neither of you has an STD.
2007-03-28 20:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are still young...rent a movie, and see where that goes...eat some popcorn... Don't think anything too serious. Think positive and spend as much time as you can with her, without being sexual. You can go for a walk down the park, or aorund the block, if she drives you guys can go to the movies instead of staying home! Be proactive! Sex isn't everything, so have fun and keep kissing! lol..Good luck!!
2007-03-28 19:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her not us... we dont know what she wants... she will know... and if you ask her.. she can tell you... (plus communicating with her make you progress your relationship further.. cuz communication is a big part of the relationship)... relationships work at different paces... some people go straight to sex.. while others take it slow and just kiss and hold hands... and make out... since you have already made out... if you like it (and im sure you do)... keep that up... dont try anything new unless you tell her.. cuz if you move too fast... she may feel uncomfortable.. and if worst comes to worst.. may break up with you...
2007-03-28 19:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by dramoonzer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well what t you really need to do is be careful -unwanted pregancies are no fun and at your age--u can t even drink or drive legally!
If u were old enough to do what u are asking about-you wouldnt have to ask anyone period!!!You need to start focusing on a good education
2007-03-28 19:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush into anything physical. You are both very young and should just get to know eachother and enjoy your time together
2007-03-28 19:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Bubba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, dont do the stupid finger thing!!!! The guy who said that is a pervert. Just chill and watch a movie with her
2007-03-28 19:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just wait and makeout a little bit more before you go to the next step
2007-03-28 19:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start going slow and see how she responds if she is uncomfortable then wait and take it slow but whatever you do DONT PUSH T HARD.
2007-03-28 19:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by Michael W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋