Girl issues?

Question

i know this girl from school nad i like her a lot. she is cute but i don't like her just for that, she is smart, a good quick thinker, and is realy nice. i like her but i don't know if she likes me, i don't like her friends, and i'm really not the coolest preson around. Help

she isn't at the top of the food chain, she is in the middle. pluss she was at a dance a while a go, i asked her if she wanted to walk around. we ad a great time and she thought i was pretty cool. then my social standing plummeted.

what happens if she doesn't like me

if i do ask here out, what should i say?

Answer 1

Just be yourself and dont try to rush things. Dont be over agressive. If something happens it does, if not.. oh well.

Answer 2

You don't have to be the coolest person for her to notice you. If that is the only thing she's not a very good person. Try talking to her at first and getting to know her. If you know her and she knows you then try to hang out some. Friends don't always have an ifluence on somebody's choice in a relationship so as long as your not really ragging on her friends then you'll be alright. Rereading your question I'm not that sure if you're asking whether you want to find out if she likes you or if you want her to notice that you like her? Just think things through and try not be the perfect person. Nobody is...

Answer 3

Try just starting a casual conversation when not too many other people are around and see how she reacts. If she is really nice she will enjoy talking to you. If she turns out to be not that nice then you shouldnt waste anymore time on her.
You just need a little courage, once she sees how cool you really are, everything should flow naturally.

Answer 4

Some times you don't have to be the coolest to get the girl, go a head ask her out.. the squeaky wheel gets the grease.

Answer 5

aw she sounds like me! except my friends are all differnt and everyone likes most of them!
any way your problem is the focus here. Give her compliments and stuff if she flirts with you, flirt back and just see how it goes from there! Remember have confidience dont stare at the ground, look her in the eye when talking and dont mumble! Just act comfortable (even if you aren't!)
Good luck!

Answer 6

firt, when u get a girl, u do not hang around with her friends, so it doesn't matter.
Second, fix yourself up, forget cool, you need confidence! You need to appear as though u believe in yourself! Actualy, u DO need to believe in yourself. Yu should tell her straight out if u want to, or just smile mysteriously, drop small hints, and THEn tell her.

Answer 7

You don't have to be the coolest person, you do have to be interesting enough for her. Flaunt your best assets, make friends with her first and see how far you can go. No harm in trying...

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Answer 8

What you need to do is just talk to her and ask her when she is alone since you dont like her friends....And tell her how you feel most girls like to see emotion in a gut so just go for it

Answer 9

She sounds like a good person... don't worry about her friends chances are is they really arent her friends but instead aquantinces........ ask her out nothing is more charming than a guy hitting on you.... i wish you luck

Answer 10

Ask her out... She shouldnt care if your not cool and shouldnt care what her friends say.. you may be afriad of rejection but if she rejects you she might not be the right girl ask her out but dont be depressed if she says no...