what should i do?

Question

well im in an unfamiliar situation. i like this girl, and she likes me, we both have been very vocal about our feelings towards each other. but were not going out because she doesnt want a boyfriend. Im ok with that, but sometimes she acts like she doesnt like me, or doesnt even want to talk to me...then other times she acts like she really likes me. so im very confused...as to what to do

should i talk to her about it, or just wait to see what happens?

if i should talk to her about it, what should i say?

Answer 1

She just doesnt always talk to u b.c as u said she doesnt want a bf so she is not trying to get too attached with u so, u wont ask her out or anything. Trust me I have done this before.

Answer 2

This is expected out of someone who likes and and doesnt want a relationship, maybe she is doing it so you dont get to attatched and get hurt, If you cant handle it break it off, If you can handle it then let her do what she wants seeing as though she already told about not wanting a relationship. Talking is good sometimes, but to much can be very bad, relax and be happy with the good moments that you guys share, and dont take the bad moments personally.

Answer 3

well it is for sure that she is not sure of her feelings, all you can do talk to her be honest with her.
At the same time try to go fishing, go out with others with absolute no attachment.
You never know you might find some one else. Or she might realize that she does love you. Some times girls just play games in way that they think well if he truly loves me he will wait, or he will keep calling me and keep coming after me. Lets hope she is not one of those kinds that she brings you along and ( i mean she is fishing at the same time ) waiting to find some one else better than you.
One thing you should do is make her understand that she is not the only one. One way or another it is your right to know,
where you stand with her.

Answer 4

Well it sounds to me this girl is alittle confused and she needs to work things out befor she can settle down, so just be a friend for now a be a good listener.

Answer 5

i think you should talk to her about it. be like "i understand that you like me, and i like you too. but you have me very confused. sometimes i feel like you like me and that you want a boyfriend, but then you tell me you don't want a boyfriend and act like you don't like me anymore. can you just tell me, do you want to be just friends or do you want to take it further than that?"

if you say it just as it is, then there is no room for you to get anymore confused than you are. in fact it should clear things up.

Answer 6

dont talk to her the reason she is ignoring u is because she probably dosnt want to get to close to you as u said she dosnt want a boyfriend so just leave it as it is eventually if yee both really fall for each other in time it will happen just be patient!

Answer 7

it sounds like you want something a bit more solid. sit her down and tell how she is making you feel. that shouldnt be so difficult since you already communicate at least a little about your feelings. just tell her what youre feeling and how you guys can fix the problem.

good luck!

Answer 8

Ha believe it or not i thought you were one of my friends because im in the same situation... umm i bet you she really does want a bf... tlk to her bout how you feel... w/e you do dont annoy her though thts terrible..... see how thngs work out . good luck

Answer 9

maybe she likes you but she's not that brave enough to stand for what she feels...Talk to her about it...try not to be always available for her also...sometimes some girls are like that...keeping a guy guess what her true feelings are so that she wouldn't lose an admirer-or shall we say an ego-booster.

Answer 10

well, i am a woman and cant tell you why we act that way sometimes...
...every really good relationship is built on communication....
...talk to her about it and be open...you will always have her trust and honesty if you are honest and truthful to her...good luck