I totally fell for the wrong person who I met this semester. I'm a college student and I fell for one of my classmates, who just got out of a long crazy relationship, is graduating this semester, and is moving to a different state. Everytime we see each other the chemistry is obvious. We get along great! At times I even think that the feeling is mutual. I don't know what to do, because I know I will get hurt. Any advice???
2007-03-28 12:37:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend is moving in less than a month. This is probably the main reason why I will end up hurting in the end.
2007-03-30 06:05:18 · update #1
Guesswho, Yes, you did fall for the wrong person. Unfortunately, your timing is at a disadvantage for two reasons. One, the person you fell for is just out of a bad relationship, leaving you for the rebound position. Second, this person is leaving for another state. I think you would be wise not to get involved. Your kind of in a no win situation here. The only other thing: is that you think that there is some chemistry between the two of you, right? Well, if you think it would be worth the heartbreak, which you seem convinced of is going to happen, and you are willing to suffer the consequences, then maybe a fling will be a way to get this person out of your mind. If you feel you will regret not making a move, and then they are gone, I guess you should do what is in your heart. Sorry I flip flopped, but as i am posting this, I am wondering do you want to end up asking yourself, What if? Sorry, not to be much help. Good Luck
2007-04-05 10:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u really like this person then stay with her. if u think something bad is goin 2 happen then u need 2 confront her about it. u have 2 tell her what u feel. she has 2 know how u feel 2 make u both feel better. if she is movin then u have 2 break up with her or try & talk about it. if u know u will get hurt then its obvious on what u have 2 do. but its ur choice on what u do. good luck
2007-03-28 12:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by Beaner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do. first this person needs time to get over what happened in that"long crazy relationship".the amount of time depends on the person.some can get over it in days and some need years.. give them the time they need to get over this thing, or it will effect any relationship you can have with them..(the elephant in the room effect).. .. . . . .. .. good luck . :)
2007-03-28 12:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by pbear i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so how is this wrong person? how can you be sure you will get hurt? do you have a chrystal ball? you only live once, take the chance.
2007-03-28 12:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm. . . . yea i gots sum advice: ok i didnt read da details cuz its 2 long n i dnt hav dat much time but my advice is 2 get bck up again. or how bout givin em' a chance? er. . . sumthin lik that? mayb just c wat theyre lik or sumthin. good luck! o - yea n 2 stop likin em, evry time u c him pretend hes a
ugly green monster! if u hava imagination
ps srry 4 da bad spellin but lik i sed, i dnt hve much time.
2007-03-28 12:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by On-a-Boy-Fast 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
have as much sex with that person as you can before they go away so that you have great memories.
2007-04-05 07:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What ever happens will happen for good.
there are more things to life...............
2007-04-05 07:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by rai sahab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him...out...!
2007-04-05 02:06:41 · answer #8 · answered by Raja.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋