These two guys always talk to me,and flirt with me,like ALL the time,and the one guy is always singing my name and stuff. And he is always talking bout me.Everytime we talk the other guy stares directly into my eyes.
So,obviously i thought they liked me,so i asked ONE of them out,but i was so scared that it would wreck our friendship,so i asked them out anyway,and they said no,and then they like never talked to me again,then i waited like 3 months later and the other guy was still flirting with me and doing the same stuff,so i asked him out the other day,and he said no,and now OUR friendship is not the same,so What the hell?
2007-03-28 12:16:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think guys don't know how to be friends with a female. Either they don't want a relationship or they just want to "hit" it. And some are just flirtatious..its their ego. I know this might make you feel unappreciated in having a friendship with guys.. just take it as it is. Dont ask them..let them ask you..until then enjoy urself...flirt with who u want to..just don't make yourself look like a "hoe"
2007-03-28 12:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by I AM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone here is wrong but they guy "me" down there. its easy for guys to flirt with girls they don't like but the girl they like would be the one they act nervous around. the guy that likes you is the one you always catch staring at you and looking away when you look at them but is too afraid to talk to you.
they stopped talking to you because it makes them feel awkward which is something they shouldn't do. shows their weakness/immaturity. you're in high school right?
ps. the nervous guy that you catch looking at you and looking away but is too afraid to talk to you is the kind of guy that would love for a girl to ask them out.
they aren't rude. they just said no. but when girls say no to guys its alright right? (<- Not to you)
2007-03-28 12:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to be the one that does the asking OR he can just be a natural flirt and doesn't mean anything by it. and if they're doing the same things all over again tell them you think their behavior makes you feel uncomfortable!
2007-03-28 12:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they're immature babies who play games. Just don't judge all men to be such losers. BTW women have done that a lot to me to, including even touching me and then saying no to going out, so I feel your pain.
2007-03-28 12:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just rude, guys. I wish there were more nicer guys in the world, not just rude,self fish guys. They are just out there to hurt girls. Sigh.
2007-03-28 12:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Eli sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first mistake girls should never ask out guys
2007-03-28 12:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by mommie_29801 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is so stupid how boys are that way... I'm so sorry
2007-03-28 12:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by Staubie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋