my girlfriend, right? weve been together for almost 4 months now and we both agreed it was love at 1st sight (and i mean LOVE ok!? dont tell me im too young to know what love is cuz im sick of ppl tellin me that bullshit, ok!?!?) but about my girl, she thinks we should split and from what she told me i think she thinks shes holdin me down or somethin like that cuz i ran away fom home when my parents started givin me **** about her cuz shes asian i ended up doin it twice and eventually my parents stopped talkin bout it but when i told my girl what they were sayin it broke her heart (do you know how hard it was to tell her my parents hated her cuz she ASIAN!?!?!?!?) but shes sayin that im gettin sent away cuz of her and im tryin 2 tell her it was MY CHOICE to run off! Someone tell me: how can i show her that shes the only happy thing in my life!? she thinks shes makin me miserable! it doesnt make sense!!! Any help would be appreciated!
2007-03-28 12:16:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow...i hate racial issues...they shouldnt be an issue at all! and yet they are...anyways...
hmm...i would tell her not to worry about you and your rents problem...its something that will eventually mellow out..it might take time but everything does. And that she is too important to lose over a tiff with your rents. Tell her if she really loves you that she would understand you standing up to your rents and standing up for her race. shes not holding you back shes only helping you help your parents become better ppl...(cuz hopefully one day they'll realize how stupid theyr being and EVENTUALLY accept her) Tell her if anything you need her now more than ever..to stand by your side and help you through it. Its ridiculous that she thinks shes holding you back...tell her you love her and theres no reason for her to leave...
HOPEFULLY she realizes this and stays with you ...and HOPEFULLY shes not using this as an excuse to get away from the commitment... i dont know the personal details but this is always a possibility...so jus keep that in mind...
GOODLUCK with everything!!
2007-03-28 13:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by roxybeach793 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, sounds like shes testing u.- - she wants you to prove that u love her by "fighting" 4 her -
keep reassuring her that u dont give a sheet what your parents think and u only want 2 b together.
give her some trinket piece of jewelery with some note declaring your love
2007-03-28 19:50:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i know where your coming from....my parents dont like my boyfriend because he is older....they dont know him that well....i didnt run away, that not the solution....talk with you parents tell tem how much this girl means to you...and have their approval, it means the most, i would love my parents to like my boyfriend but im too young (16) its culture whatever, Im Iranian by the way, by boyfrend is American...but however his parents love me and sometime i feel to bad becuase it really hurts my boyfriend that my family doesnt like him for no reason
Talk to your girlfriend tell her how much she means, but u also need to respect you parents, they raised you, it means alot when you respect you parents, especially to your girlfriend.
make peace with your parents, tell them how much this girl means to you, dont be rebelious. If they totally dont agree wait till you are eighteen and can make the decision if you are then make the decision you think is right....
2007-03-28 19:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sherry P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋