i need some relationship advice?

Question

THere is this girl at school that im really crushing on. IVe known her really well for about 2 months. We talk alot she gives me hugs holds my arm and calls me cute. She doesnt really do this to other guys and it seems she hugs me and talks to me more than with her bf She has a bf and they have been on and off for about a couple months. Her bf is always making fun of her but she still likes him even though she always gets upset when he says that kinda stuff. The guy she is with happens to be my friend also. I really need some help what should i do? she is giving me mixed signals about our relationship

Answer 1

First of all, you shouldn't have any relationship with a girl other than a friendship if she is in a relationship, just that alone adds a negative dynamic to the situation. You need to tell her to respect you and her boyfriend, your friend by not givin' you mixed signals. If she was with you, you wouldn't be down with that kind of behavior so don't participate with the inappropriateness. She needs to make a decision but she can't have her cake and eat it too. Then you also have to decide if the friendship you have with the guy is worth losing for this girl.

Answer 2

Magic Presto abracadabra, poof.

(coff-coff) Sorry about that smoke an stuff, but when I try to read the future and other people's minds, that's all I get, a bunch of smoke and stuff.

You need to work on probabilities. Since you are his friend, and by association, your're also her friend, she's probably trying to be friendly. You might mention to her that you have been his friend longer than you've been her friend, and all the hugging is throwing you the wrong kinda message.

Bring it into the open with her. Don't loose your best bud over mixed signals. I'm all for flirting and stuff, but she's playing you because, as a friend, you can't do anything. This doesn't go to your Bud. He wouldn't believe you and she might be innocent of actually flirting.

Be careful with her

If, on the other hand, your Bud is gonna drop her, tell him that you wanna pick up where he left off. Ask his advise. Should you or not. What ever he says, do it. If he doesn't want you to go near her, don't. Because, he will not be able to avoid her when he sees you and her together. So, you see the many levels of complexity that will arise. Someone is gonna get hurt if you are not careful.

Do what you want, but, I wouldn't risk it.

Answer 3

Your in High School and your buddies girl is hanging with you? Okay heres the deal, if your buddy treats her like that she needs to dump him, plain and simple. She should have more respect for herself than that she is to young for a codependant relationship. If your buddy is mistreating this young lady maybe you should be a gentleman and confront him about it.

None the less you never break the code. You do know the code? If you dont here it is, you never ever, ever, ever date your buddies girl or ex girl. (EVER) On the other hand 6 months after you graduate you and he will never see each other. Its a tough one. Is she worth your friendship? Because that is what it will cost you. If your not graduating this yr, drop the whole thing and run like heck. You talk about compromising position dude your in for one....

good luck


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Answer 4

she loves her bf , as she even loves him while her bf makes fun of her .she hugs u as a friend and likes you but she dont love you ,so be far from her.

Answer 5

first that is your friends girl so back up and tell her she is making you uncomfortable. two she sounds like she trying to get you to ask but don't it is not worth it. true friends will always be there and gf come and go

Answer 6

If you don't take a risk to find out what may happen..you will never know. She likes you..ask her out.

Answer 7

ur m8 sounds like an ******. i think you should confrot the girl how you feel,not over txt or IM but via calling her.

Answer 8

ask her out