I was his friend for a year and i really like him and then we had started talkin but once he found out i wanted to wait he said he jsut wants to go back to b friends bcuz he has a difft view??
2007-03-28 12:12:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then move on. You want to wait, and he obviously isn`t feeling you enough to do the same. He isn`t worth stressing over there are people out there who would gladly wait for you
2007-03-28 12:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica Marie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh thats real easy: move on. He was only interested in one thing and one thing only. You don't need people like that in your life. You want to wait? Then wait. You go girl. Keep waiting. 'Cause there are girls that go ahead and do that to keep a guy interested but to their dismay, the guy may lose interest the moment its done and remember this honey: you don't want to get pregnant (even if you do protect yourself - accidents happen).....you don't want to catch a disease (can you imagine how that would feel going into a clinic full of strangers and you will get those stares and having a complete stranger putting his/her hands all in your stuff) --- you don't want that. Go with your gut honey -- you keep on waiting. You won't regret it. I applaude you - keep being strong. He won't be the only guy you'll ever like - I promise you that sweety. Good luck girl and remember this: if a guy you like makes you feel uncomfortable by wanting to do something you don't want to do....put up that red flag girl and press on. There is such thing as good guys. This guy isn't one of them. Next time he pressures you into that -- go tell him to play with himself and watch his reaction girl. LOL
2007-03-28 12:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many women are just giving themselves to the guy they think they "love".
Nobody waits for marriage anymore.
I am waiting for marriage before I lose my virginity, and I expect the same from the woman I marry.
The guy is dirt.
2007-03-28 12:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by snipertkc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, his stance tells you one of two things...
1) He respects the fact that you want to wait. He doesn't want to wait, so he feels he has to keep things platonic ("just friends") between the both of you.
2) He wants to have sex, you're not willing, so he'll find someone who is.
Please do not stress over this...most guys want to have pre-marital sex.
If you truly wish to wait for marriage to have sex, there are quite a few guys who share your point of view...just try to find one of them who does.
In the meantime, please concentrate on furthering your education and your personal development...in the pursuit of your interests, you will find someone who shares your value systems.
2007-03-28 12:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by GirlWithaPurpose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him quicker than a hot potato. I had the same experience and later got back with him once I began having sex. He was the biggest loser of all time - one of the biggest mistakes of my life. Find someone worth you and your decisions.
2007-03-28 12:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is really saying that he doesn't want a 'relationship'. He just wants sex. Any guy who only wants sex isn't worth liking. Move on and find someone better! You deserve someone who respects your views!
2007-03-28 12:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about him. If you are still a virgin then hold off for what ever you believe in. Don't let anyone change your mind. You are better than any person who doesn't respect your wishes.
2007-03-28 12:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by mommysgirl78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He obviously had something totally different in mind. But don't ponder on what he thinks or wants, have enough respect in yourself and keep standing up for what you believe in .
2007-03-28 12:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh Hun you dont see what he really wanted why would he stop dating you when he found out you didn't want to have sex
its cus he just wanted sex from you any person will tell you that
Hun he is such a jerk why would you want him i mean really why would you if he only cares about sex uh get rid of him and fast he is bad news babe
i wanted to wait but i met a guy and he wanted me to sleep with him i almost gave up my virginity to him but i didnt i was about two days away from sleeping with him and then my parents told me they found all these emails in his email account cus he checked his email and my parents house and it turned out that i thought he loved me but it was really all lies and he just wanted to get down my pants to brag to his friends
if a guy loves you and respects you he will not pressure you or threaten to dump if you dont want sex
i had to tell the man i love all the sexual stuff me and my ex did and my new guy is a great man and if hurt him to find out what i did and i can tell you one thing it will always hurt me to know what i almost did
2007-03-28 12:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
"He's dumb, most guys like virgins.
Maybe the reason why is because virgins woun't just do anyone and are looking for respect and he's too selfish for that.
You wayyyyy better than that. "
dumbass, most guys like virgins cuz they want to have sex with virgins!
2007-03-28 12:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by experiencemytoxicity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋