what will God do
the mother god gave me doesnt care about me, she cares for my brother and sister and others
everytime i need her help she
yells at me
but when she needs my help i help her
but when i don't
she complains and tell everybody how hard she has it and i don't help her and alway geting smart with her
the reason why i get smart with her cause she pick with me
2007-03-28 12:01:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I will pray for you and your mother.
Tell her these things in a loving a way as you can.
Continue to help her, and God will show you His love everyday.
2007-03-28 12:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by everything is broken 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you only perceive that she's favoring your siblings. It sounds like you need to find a calm time...sit her down and discuss how you feel with her.
Sometimes, you DO get a raw deal where parents are concerned. You can't choose your parents. That's the way it is. Mine were people who never should have had children, but...if that's the case, you have to take it upon yourself to become someone you can be proud of. I don't mean to sound harsh, but...in life, no one owe's you anything. There are things parent's are expected to do...but some do and some don't. Learn to rely on yourself. Don't get smart with her if you can help it. It does no one any good.
Just know that God is there for you. He won't hand you new parents or make things perfect for you, but He will help you deal with what comes your way. He can give you the strength to approach her in a mature manner, and hopefully give you the words to open her eyes...OR...open your eyes so you can see where she's coming from.
2007-03-28 19:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's tough. I got yelled at a lot as a kid too. But I didn't pass on that attitude to my children.
There is no easy answer. You could try explain to her that it bothers you, but with me that would not have worked.
I would suggest counseling, but she'd have to want to go.
You could always make the best of it and look for the future when you'll be old enough to be on your own. That may sound terrible, but we all have to have something to look forward to.
No matter what happens, try and be a good person. That's not always easy to do, but you'll be better for it.
I'm still not completely over my childhood, but it also doesn't effect my daily life. That's a choice you'll have to make.
Try talking, try not talking back, look forward to a future of your own. And lastly, do a little praying, the guy upstairs has always took care of me, even if I'm not religious.
I'll be thinking of your situation, I hope it gets better for you.
2007-03-28 19:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by ScooterLibby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you are tested in life. some people murder their testers, while others learn from them. i would hope you will learn from her. learn that there are better ways to do things. learn to support yourself. learn to not count on anyone for help. learn these lessons from her, and when you are older, you will thank her. you may not see it now, but you will become a better person when you make it out of these trials and tribulations. believe me young don, for i have been on that side of the fence-but now i am on the other side where the pasture is much, much greener.
2007-03-28 19:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to help your mother. Your reward will be in heaven. Though she may not see it now, if you continue to show her love she just might learn how to love. And by this I mean unconditionally. I will be praying for you.
2007-03-28 19:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by cawlbell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, talk to your mom and tell her that, she does love you, its a sad fact, but there's a kid in every family that feels the way you do. i bet you are the only one that mom can truly depend on. and that she must feel that you are fine, and that the others can't. but trust me sometimes us moms don't realize that we put such a strain on one of the babies. we see that you want your independence and sometimes, we forget that you aren't. sometimes you do need a hug, sometimes you do need to hear and feel the words I Love You. So tell mom that, ........I think I'll call my daughter up and tell her I love her and appreciate her, thanks your question also helped.
2007-03-28 19:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by lolly125107 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
two wrongs will never be right so always be right by her and you will never be wrong
2007-03-28 19:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin H 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋